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Daniel Goleman
American
Author
Born:
Mar 7
,
1946
About
Emotions
Focus
Intelligence
People
You
Related authors:
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
Henry David Thoreau
Joyce Meyer
Mark Twain
Og Mandino
Zig Ziglar
If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.
Daniel Goleman
You
Emotions
Smart
Matter
Relationships
Distressing
Ability
Able
Emotional
Self-Awareness
Empathy
How
Hand
Effective
Very
Get
Manage
Going
Far
Then
Your
True compassion means not only feeling another's pain but also being moved to help relieve it.
Daniel Goleman
Compassion
Feeling
Pain
Relieve
Only
True
Also
Another
Moved
Being
Means
Help
A prerequisite to empathy is simply paying attention to the person in pain.
Daniel Goleman
Pain
Simply
Empathy
Attention
Person
Paying
Prerequisite
Smart phones and social media expand our universe. We can connect with others or collect information easier and faster than ever.
Daniel Goleman
Phones
Smart
Social Media
Faster
Universe
Others
Our
Easier
Collect
Expand
Than
Information
Social
Connect
Media
Ever
Emotional 'literacy' implies an expanded responsibility for schools in helping to socialize children. This daunting task requires two major changes: that teachers go beyond their traditional mission and that people in the community become more involved with schools as both active participants in children's learning and as individual mentors.
Daniel Goleman
Learning
People
Responsibility
Become
Community
Active
Changes
More
Both
Daunting
Individual
Mentors
Emotional
Participants
Major
Implies
Mission
Beyond
Involved
Schools
Go
Traditional
Task
Children
Literacy
Requires
Teachers
Helping
Socialize
Two
The emotional brain responds to an event more quickly than the thinking brain.
Daniel Goleman
Intelligence
Thinking
Responds
More
Emotional
Brain
Quickly
Than
Event
Whenever we feel stressed out, that's a signal that our brain is pumping out stress hormones. If sustained over months and years, those hormones can ruin our health and make us a nervous wreck.
Daniel Goleman
Health
Stress
Nervous
Pumping
Our
Ruin
Months
Those
Signal
Out
Hormones
Wreck
Feel
Over
Make
Years
Brain
Whenever
Sustained
Us
Stressed
Societies can be sunk by the weight of buried ugliness.
Daniel Goleman
Sunk
Weight
Ugliness
Buried
Societies
The basic premise that children must learn about emotions is that all feelings are okay to have; however, only some reactions are okay.
Daniel Goleman
Emotions
Feelings
Okay
Must
Some
About
Only
Reactions
Learn
However
Children
Premise
Basic
If you are doing mindfulness meditation, you are doing it with your ability to attend to the moment.
Daniel Goleman
You
Meditation
Mindfulness
Ability
Attend
Doing
Your
Moment
Empathy and social skills are social intelligence, the interpersonal part of emotional intelligence. That's why they look alike.
Daniel Goleman
Intelligence
Alike
Emotional
Emotional Intelligence
Part
Empathy
Look
Social
Skills
Social Skills
Why
Interpersonal
There is zero correlation between IQ and emotional empathy... They're controlled by different parts of the brain.
Daniel Goleman
Correlation
Emotional
Empathy
Between
Parts
Brain
Controlled
Different
Different Parts
Zero
If you do a practice and train your attention to hover in the present, then you will build the internal capacity to do that as needed - at will and voluntarily.
Daniel Goleman
You
Will
Practice
Build
Voluntarily
Attention
Hover
Train
Capacity
Then
Your
Internal
Present
Needed
The social brain is in its natural habitat when we're talking with someone face-to-face in real time.
Daniel Goleman
Time
Natural
Habitat
Face-To-Face
Someone
Talking
Real
Brain
Real Time
Social
When it comes to exploring the mind in the framework of cognitive neuroscience, the maximal yield of data comes from integrating what a person experiences - the first person - with what the measurements show - the third person.
Daniel Goleman
Mind
First
Framework
Data
Neuroscience
First-Person
Integrating
Yield
Person
Experiences
Exploring
Show
Measurements
Cognitive
Third
Well, any effort to maximize your potential and ability is a good thing.
Daniel Goleman
Good
Ability
Potential
Good Thing
Well
Effort
Maximize
Any
Your
Thing
Emotional intelligence begins to develop in the earliest years. All the small exchanges children have with their parents, teachers, and with each other carry emotional messages.
Daniel Goleman
Intelligence
Parents
Other
Carry
Small
Emotional
Emotional Intelligence
Develop
Exchanges
Messages
Years
Begins
Children
Teachers
Each
Earliest
Brain studies of mental workouts in which you sustain a single, chosen focus show that the more you detach from what's distracting you and refocus on what you should be paying attention to, the stronger this brain circuitry becomes.
Daniel Goleman
You
Focus
Stronger
Single
Detach
Distracting
Mental
More
Studies
Attention
Becomes
Brain
Sustain
Which
Should
Show
Paying
Workouts
Chosen
As a freshman in college, I was having a lot of trouble adjusting. I took a meditation class to handle anxiety. It really helped. Then as a grad student at Harvard, I was awarded a pre-doctoral traveling fellowship to India, where my focus was on the ancient systems of psychology and meditation practices of Asia.
Daniel Goleman
Class
Anxiety
Focus
College
Trouble
Meditation
Took
Harvard
Ancient
Systems
Adjusting
India
Having
Student
Fellowship
Practices
Freshman
Lot
Handle
Grad
Where
Psychology
Asia
Then
Really
Helped
Awarded
Traveling
While there I began to study the Asian religions as theories of mind.
Daniel Goleman
Mind
Religions
Study
Began
While
Asian
Theories
But there has also been a notable increase in recent years of these applications by a much wider slice of psychotherapists - far greater interest than ever before.
Daniel Goleman
Before
Increase
Slice
Also
Greater
Been
Years
Than
Interest
Notable
Far
Much
Ever
Applications
Wider
Recent
Recent Years
When I went on to write my next book, Working With Emotional Intelligence, I wanted to make a business case that the best performers were those people strong in these skills.
Daniel Goleman
Best
Business
Book
People
Intelligence
Strong
Those
Case
Write
Emotional
Emotional Intelligence
Performers
Make
Were
Wanted
Next
Working
Skills
My hope was that organizations would start including this range of skills in their training programs - in other words, offer an adult education in social and emotional intelligence.
Daniel Goleman
Education
Hope
Intelligence
Training
Words
Other
Programs
Range
Would
Emotional
Adult
Emotional Intelligence
Offer
In Other Words
Social
Skills
Organizations
Including
Start
Motivation aside, if people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathic manager and a more empathic father.
Daniel Goleman
Life
People
Benefits
Better
Father
Everyone
Distinguish
More
Between
Motivation
Brain
Get
Manager
Being
Aside
Skills
But once you are in that field, emotional intelligence emerges as a much stronger predictor of who will be most successful, because it is how we handle ourselves in our relationships that determines how well we do once we are in a given job.
Daniel Goleman
You
Intelligence
Will
Job
Stronger
Field
Relationships
Our
Once
Ourselves
Emerges
Determines
Given
Emotional
Emotional Intelligence
Most
Well
Because
How
Handle
Predictor
Much
Successful
Who
I think the smartest thing for people to do to manage very distressing emotions is to take a medication if it helps, but don't do only that. You also need to train your mind.
Daniel Goleman
You
People
Emotions
Mind
Think
Distressing
Only
Take
Smartest
Also
Very
Train
Manage
Your
Helps
Thing
Medication
Need
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