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Mark Manson
American
Author
Born:
Mar 9
,
1984
Life
Love
People
Think
Time
You
Related authors:
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
Henry David Thoreau
Joyce Meyer
Mark Twain
Og Mandino
Zig Ziglar
How do I control my emotions? How do I stop getting angry so often, or how do I stop being sad? And I think there's a really important distinction to understand is that you can't completely control your emotions. What you control is your reaction to your own emotions. And a lot of people don't ever make that separation for what goes on with them.
Mark Manson
Sad
Angry
You
People
Emotions
Important
Own
Control
Separation
Think
Distinction
Reaction
Make
Understand
How
Lot
Goes
Getting
Often
Stop
Being
Them
Really
Your
Ever
True love - that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy - is a choice. It's a constant commitment to a person regardless of the present circumstances.
Mark Manson
Love
True Love
Commitment
Circumstances
Constant
Abide
Emotional
Impervious
True
Person
Regardless
Fancy
Whims
Choice
Deep
Present
When most people set out to change their lives, they often focus on all the external stuff, like a new job or a new location or new friends or a new romantic prospects and on and on. The reality is that changing your life starts with changing the way you see everything in your life.
Mark Manson
Life
You
Change
Reality
People
Job
Focus
Starts
Changing
Everything
Way
Location
Out
See
Stuff
Prospects
New
Like
Most
New Friends
New Job
Friends
Often
Romantic
Your
Lives
External
Set
People complain not because something sucks. People complain because they're looking for empathy and to feel connected with those around them. Unfortunately, complaining is maybe the least useful way to connect with other human beings.
Mark Manson
People
Complaining
Looking
Other
Complain
Way
Those
Something
Empathy
Feel
Because
Around
Least
Human
Maybe
Human Beings
Unfortunately
Them
Useful
Connect
Connected
Beings
Sucks
People want to start their own business or become financially independent. But you don't end up a successful entrepreneur unless you find a way to love the risk, the uncertainty, the repeated failures, and working insane hours on something you have no idea whether will be successful or not.
Mark Manson
Love
You
Business
People
Entrepreneur
Will
Become
Own
Unless
Way
Insane
Independent
Financially
Find
No Idea
Something
Risk
Uncertainty
Idea
Failures
Hours
Repeated
End
Up
Want
Whether
To Love
Successful
Working
Start
Like anything worth doing in life, happiness takes time and patience and consistency.
Mark Manson
Happiness
Life
Time
Patience
Worth
Consistency
Takes
Like
Doing
Anything
One of the problems of modern society, or the post-Internet age, is that there are so many things bombarding us that we could care about. I think it's more important than ever to really get clear and focus on what's worth caring about and what's just noise or distraction.
Mark Manson
Age
Noise
Worth
Problems
Care
Focus
Important
Think
Society
Caring
One Of The Problems
Distraction
About
More
Could
Clear
Than
Get
Modern
Just
Modern Society
Us
Really
Many
Ever
Things
Seeking approval and people pleasing forces you to alter your actions and speech to no longer reflect what you actually think or feel.
Mark Manson
You
People
Reflect
Think
Approval
Pleasing
Seeking
Feel
Longer
Alter
Forces
Your
Actions
Actually
Speech
In our culture, many of us idealize love. We see it as some lofty cure-all for all of life's problems. Our movies and our stories and our history all celebrate it as life's ultimate goal, the final solution for all of our pain and struggle. And because we idealize love, we overestimate it. As a result, our relationships pay a price.
Mark Manson
Life
Love
History
Struggle
Celebrate
Culture
Result
Problems
Pay
Pain
Final
Relationships
Our
Lofty
Solution
See
Some
Price
Idealize
Because
Overestimate
Ultimate
Ultimate Goal
Goal
Stories
Movies
Us
Many
The American Dream is simple: it's the unwavering belief that anybody - you, me, your friends, your neighbors, grandma Verna - can become exceedingly successful, and all it takes is the right amount of work, ingenuity, and determination.
Mark Manson
Work
Me
You
Determination
Simple
Become
Neighbors
Dream
Exceedingly
Takes
Unwavering
Friends
American
American Dream
Anybody
Ingenuity
Grandma
Successful
Your
Belief
Right
Amount
What's interesting about emotions is that the more you try to control them or to bottle them up, the stronger they get. So, the more I try to stop being sad, the sadder I'm going to get.
Mark Manson
Sad
You
Emotions
Try
Stronger
Control
About
More
Bottle
Sadder
Up
Get
Going
Stop
Being
Interesting
Them
Self-publishing provides more freedom and control, but it also provides more risk. Publishing provides more credibility and promotion, but your vision can also get lost in the bureaucratic machinery of the business. It's a tough decision to make.
Mark Manson
Freedom
Business
Vision
Decision
Tough
Lost
Control
Machinery
Promotion
Risk
More
Tough Decision
Also
Make
Provides
Get
Bureaucratic
Your
Credibility
Publishing
Happiness is not something you achieve. It's not something you do or someplace you get to. Happiness is something you inhabit.
Mark Manson
Happiness
You
Achieve
Someplace
Something
Get
Inhabit
The problem with idealizing love is that it causes us to develop unrealistic expectations about what love actually is and what it can do for us.
Mark Manson
Love
Love Is
Problem
About
Unrealistic
Develop
Causes
Expectations
The Problem With
Us
Actually
One thing that I think most people don't notice is that if you're sitting around telling yourself, 'I want to be happier,' there's a kind of subconscious message that you're also telling yourself at the same time, which is, 'What I have is not enough.'
Mark Manson
Time
You
Yourself
People
Subconscious
Think
Enough
Kind
Telling
One Thing
Most
Also
Message
Around
Same
Sitting
Same Time
Want
Happier
Which
Notice
Thing
Obviously, we all want to feel pleasure. It can't be one of our highest priorities because, simply put, anything worthwhile in life is going to be un-pleasurable at times. Pleasure is the type of thing that if you get the other stuff right, pleasure will happen on its own.
Mark Manson
Life
You
Will
Own
Other
Type
Our
Pleasure
Worthwhile
Highest
Put
Simply
Feel
Stuff
Obviously
Because
Priorities
Times
Get
Going
Want
Happen
Anything
Right
Thing
I think humility - which I think is a very good value to adopt - is basically an extension of understanding your own ignorance.
Mark Manson
Good
Ignorance
Value
Understanding
Own
Think
Humility
Adopt
Very
Which
Your
Extension
Basically
As soon as you try to eliminate a thought or emotion, you make it stronger.
Mark Manson
You
Try
Thought
Stronger
Emotion
Soon
Make
Eliminate
I had to decide that, you know what, I don't know who the hell I am or what I'm doing, but I do know that historically and scientifically and anecdotally, and anyone who is not an idiot knows, that waking up early and starting the day off with a nice, simple routine is a healthy and productive way to live one's life.
Mark Manson
Life
Day
You
Simple
Idiot
Healthy
Hell
Nice
Live
Way
Had
Know
Knows
Am
Scientifically
Doing
Off
Up
Waking
Historically
Waking Up
Anyone
Decide
Productive
Who
Routine
Early
Starting
I believe productivity is a deeply personal thing. We all have different brains and, therefore, different preferences, perspectives, and situations where we feel most effective.
Mark Manson
Believe
Feel
Most
Brains
Effective
Personal
Situations
Where
Different
Personal Thing
Preferences
Perspectives
Productivity
Therefore
Deeply
Thing
If I ask you, 'What do you want out of life?' and you say something like, 'I want to be happy and have a great family and a job I like,' it's so ubiquitous that it doesn't even mean anything. Everyone wants that.
Mark Manson
Life
Great
Family
You
Be Happy
Happy
Job
Everyone
Say
Great Family
Out
Something
Like
Want
Anything
Wants
Mean
Ask
Even
The first step in making better choices is to simply be brutally honest about your own behavior to yourself. What are the choices you are making? How are you spending your time? What are you neglecting that you shouldn't?
Mark Manson
Time
You
Yourself
Better
Behavior
First
Own
Neglecting
Spending
About
Brutally
Step
Simply
First Step
How
Making
Choices
Your
Honest
I love massive books: books so big, like bricks, you could drown yourself in a pool with them if you're not careful.
Mark Manson
Love
You
Yourself
Big
Pool
Books
Could
Drown
Like
Massive
Them
Bricks
Careful
Just because you fall in love with someone doesn't necessarily mean they're a good partner for you to be with over the long term.
Mark Manson
Love
Good
You
Long
Partner
Fall
Someone
Long-Term
Over
Term
Because
Just
Just Because
Mean
Necessarily
It's possible to fall in love with somebody who doesn't treat us well, who makes us feel worse about ourselves, who doesn't hold the same respect for us as we do for them, or who has such a dysfunctional life themselves that they threaten to bring us down with them.
Mark Manson
Life
Love
Respect
Treat
Somebody
Fall
Down
Worse
Ourselves
Possible
Threaten
About
Feel
Well
Makes
Same
Hold
Dysfunctional
Them
Themselves
Us
Who
Bring
One of the beautiful things about Tyler Durden in 'Fight Club' is that he seems to understand the implicit vanity and self-absorption that comes with the desire to improve oneself.
Mark Manson
Beautiful
Fight
Club
Tyler
Vanity
About
Oneself
Seems
He
Implicit
Beautiful Things
Understand
Improve
Fight Club
Things
Desire
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