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Angela Duckworth
American
Psychologist
Born:
1970
Life
People
School
Think
Time
You
Related authors:
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As our knees and hips and eyesight deteriorate, we become more dependable, less impulsive, kinder, and less moody. Psychologists call this the maturity principle. My own life experience fits this principle to a T.
Angela Duckworth
Life
Experience
Moody
Maturity
Become
Own
Our
Kinder
Eyesight
Life Experience
Deteriorate
My Own
More
Knees
Call
Principle
Hips
Fits
Dependable
Impulsive
Psychologists
Less
Being gritty doesn't mean not showing pain or pretending everything is O.K. In fact, when you look at healthy and successful and giving people, they are extraordinarily meta-cognitive. They're able to say things like, 'Dude, I totally lost my temper this morning.' That ability to reflect on yourself is signature to grit.
Angela Duckworth
Morning
You
Yourself
People
Pretending
Giving
Healthy
Lost
Reflect
Gritty
Pain
Extraordinarily
Everything
Say
Signature
Temper
Ability
Able
Totally
Fact
Like
Look
Dude
Being
In Fact
Mean
Grit
Successful
Showing
Things
When people think of the word 'drive,' they often think you have it or you don't, and that's where we're wrong. Drive is something that can be encouraged by a wonderful teacher, by a terrific classroom environment, by an awesome soccer team that you are on, and it can be squashed as well.
Angela Duckworth
Teacher
You
People
Wonderful
Word
Drive
Awesome
Think
Something
Classroom
Environment
Wrong
Well
Terrific
Encouraged
Squashed
Often
Where
Soccer
Team
The parenting style that is good for grit is also the parenting style good for most other things: Be really, really demanding, and be very, very supportive.
Angela Duckworth
Good
Parenting
Demanding
Style
Other
Supportive
Most
Also
Very
Grit
Really
Things
Really, what matters in the long run is sticking with things and working daily to get better at them.
Angela Duckworth
Daily
Better
Long
Matters
Run
Long Run
Sticking
Get
Them
Really
Working
Things
When people tell me I can't do something, I have a visceral reflex to say, 'Yes, I can.'
Angela Duckworth
Me
People
Visceral
Say
Tell
Something
Yes
Reflex
Most teachers, when surveyed, say that it is part of their job to help students develop things like grit. This is especially true at the elementary and middle school levels. They feel it's part of their vocation to teach other things that are not formally academic content.
Angela Duckworth
School
Job
Other
Say
Vocation
Students
Develop
Part
True
Feel
Like
Academic
Most
Content
Middle
Middle School
Grit
Teach
Teachers
Help
Elementary
Things
Levels
Many, many individuals will report starting to form their lifelong interests around adolescence. Why that is, researchers don't fully know. But if you can take a trip down memory lane and see what interested you, that's at least a clue as to where your interest may begin to develop.
Angela Duckworth
You
Memory
Will
Down
See
Trip
Adolescence
Lifelong
Take
Develop
Individuals
Know
Around
Least
Begin
Report
May
Where
Form
Interest
Interested
Clue
Interests
Lane
Your
Researchers
Fully
Many
Why
Starting
Nobody gets to be good at something without effort, no matter what your aptitude is.
Angela Duckworth
Good
Matter
Aptitude
Something
Nobody
Without
Effort
Gets
Your
The focus on just thinking about standardized test scores as being synonymous with achievement for teenagers is ridiculous, right? There are so many things that kids care about, where they excel, where they try hard, where they learn important life lessons, that are not picked up by test scores.
Angela Duckworth
Life
Achievement
Try
Care
Focus
Important
Thinking
Teenagers
Synonymous
Kids
About
Life Lessons
Excel
Picked
Learn
Test
Test Scores
Scores
Up
Just
Being
Where
Hard
Standardized
Many
Lessons
Ridiculous
Right
Things
I think the very idea of character, of developing not just grit, but empathy and curiosity, emotional intelligence - you know, the things that I want my own daughters to develop - the idea that we're going to get there through rewards and punishments seems completely at odds with the idea of character itself.
Angela Duckworth
Character
You
Intelligence
Odds
Own
Think
Punishments
Seems
My Own
Daughters
Through
Emotional
Emotional Intelligence
Develop
Developing
Empathy
Idea
Know
Itself
Very
Curiosity
Get
Going
Just
Rewards
Want
Grit
Things
Everybody knows that effort matters. What was revelatory to me was how much it mattered.
Angela Duckworth
Me
Matters
Everybody
Knows
How
How Much
Mattered
Effort
Much
There is a fluency and an ease with which true mastery and expertise always expresses itself, whether it be in writing, whether it be in a mathematical proof, whether it be in a dance that you see on stage, really in every domain. But I think the question is, you know, where does that fluency and mastery come from?
Angela Duckworth
You
Writing
Dance
Stage
Every
Think
Fluency
Ease
See
Proof
True
Come
Know
Mastery
Does
Always
Mathematical
Domain
Question
Itself
Where
Whether
Expertise
Which
Really
Expresses
I was a good novice teacher, but I did the things that were obvious. I stayed for lunch for extra tutoring, gave kids my cell phone, and was available. In my first year of teaching, I ended up doubling the math time that a conventional school would have. But I don't think any of these things were path-breaking or unusual.
Angela Duckworth
Teacher
Time
Good
Cell Phone
Phone
School
First
Year
Lunch
Think
Extra
Gave
Kids
Would
Stayed
Obvious
Unusual
Were
Math
Up
Did
Ended
Cell
Any
Conventional
Available
Doubling
Teaching
Novice
Things
The words that we use I think are symbolic of the values that we hold.
Angela Duckworth
Words
Values
Think
Hold
Use
Symbolic
The most important thing parents can do, although it's not the only thing they should do, is model the behavior they want from their kids.
Angela Duckworth
Behavior
Parents
Important
Kids
Only
Most
Most Important Thing
Although
Important Thing
Model
The Most Important
Want
The Only Thing
Should
Thing
Why do some people try, try again, and why do some people not? That's what I'm after.
Angela Duckworth
People
Try
Some People
Some
After
Again
Why
Grit and self-control are related, but they're not the same thing.
Angela Duckworth
Same Thing
Related
Self-Control
Same
Grit
Thing
There haven't been genetic studies on grit, but we often think that challenge is inherited but grit is learned. That's not what science says. Science says grit comes from both nature and nurture.
Angela Duckworth
Nature
Science
Challenge
Nurture
Think
Says
Both
Studies
Genetic
Learned
Been
Often
Grit
Inherited
It's a very good thing to teach kids to finish what they started in the sense of fulfilling their commitments. So when my daughter told me on the second track meet that she was done with it because she discovered she didn't like competing, I made her finish the season.
Angela Duckworth
Good
Me
Made
Daughter
Sense
Meet
Kids
Finish
Good Thing
Like
She
Track
Because
Discovered
Very
Commitments
Done
Fulfilling
Teach
Season
Her
Thing
Second
Competing
Started
Most people who are really, enduringly interested in something eventually find that it's important, too - and important to other people. Very few people can keep going their whole life doing something and feel like it's merely personally fascinating.
Angela Duckworth
Life
People
Important
Few
Too
Other
Find
Something
Merely
Feel
Like
Most
Doing
Very
Few People
Going
Interested
Personally
Really
Who
Fascinating
Whole
Keep
Keep Going
Eventually
I know a lot of CEOs who are looking for three- to four-year varsity athletes - not necessarily because these people are going to be doing pushups or spiking volleyballs in the workplace, but because they're looking for that continuity, that person who was gritty about something.
Angela Duckworth
People
Three
Looking
Gritty
Athletes
About
Something
Know
Because
Doing
Continuity
Lot
Person
Going
CEOs
Who
Workplace
Necessarily
Four-Year
Substituting nuance for novelty is what experts do, and that is why they are never bored.
Angela Duckworth
Bored
Never
Experts
Novelty
Why
Nuance
Some people prefer a world where we're all equally talented in everything. Whether you prefer that world or not, I don't think that world exists.
Angela Duckworth
You
People
World
Some People
Think
Everything
Some
Talented
Equally
Exists
Where
Whether
Prefer
I think the questions on the grit scale about not letting setbacks disappoint you, finishing what you begin, doing things with focus, I think that those are things I would aspire to or hope for for all our children.
Angela Duckworth
Hope
You
Focus
Think
Our
Those
Scale
Would
About
Finishing
Disappoint
Doing
Questions
Begin
Children
Grit
Aspire
Letting
Things
Setbacks
Some of the things we do are great, but they often have these iterations that are not great. We screw up sometimes. We get rejected.
Angela Duckworth
Great
Sometimes
Some
Up
Get
Often
Screw
Things
Rejected
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