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Sandra Tsing Loh
American
Writer
Born:
Feb 11
,
1962
Life
Parents
School
Women
Work
You
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You go into the book store, there's the cut-out of Dr. Phil, and then the dreaded women's health section where every book, instead of the menopause book with the fanged Medusa head on the cover that might be more pertinent, you always see a flower and a poppy and a daisy and a stethoscope.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Health
You
Women
Book
Every
Flower
Book Store
Section
Dreaded
See
Menopause
More
Head
Instead
Always
Go
Cover
Where
Store
Might
Then
Pertinent
Poppy
Dr
Daisy
Phil
The literature of menopause is the saddest, the most awful, and the most medical of all genres. You're sleepless, you're anxious, you're fat, you're depressed - and the advice is always the same: take more walks, eat some kale, and drink lots of water. It didn't help.
Sandra Tsing Loh
You
Water
Advice
Walks
Sleepless
Eat
Some
Menopause
More
Drink
Take
Saddest
Most
Genres
Always
Lots
Same
Anxious
Literature
Depressed
Help
Medical
Awful
Fat
I am stricken with the peculiar curse of being a 21st-century woman who makes more than the man she's living with - first with a husband for 13 years and now with a new partner.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Man
Woman
Husband
First
Partner
Living
Stricken
More
New
She
Makes
Am
Years
Than
Being
Curse
Who
Now
Peculiar
If I was going to pretend to be the supermom next door, it would've been counterfeit and a lie. I figured I had to write something out of a new place.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Lie
Out
Pretend
Something
Write
Had
Counterfeit
New
Been
New Place
Going
Door
Place
Next
Next Door
Figured
There's an image that some of us have of Jackie Onassis, stepping out in the rain, and Maurice Tempelsman is holding her umbrella. We want that man. We want the man to be the concierge and the masseur and the travel booker.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Travel
Man
Rain
Holding
Onassis
Out
Some
Stepping
Umbrella
Jackie
Want
Us
Her
Image
In the 'Mad Men' era, the archetypal dad came home; put down his briefcase; received pipe, Manhattan, roast beef, potatoes, key-lime pie; and was - apparently - content.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Home
Men
Down
Mad
Mad Men
Archetypal
Potatoes
Put
Roast
Roast Beef
Pie
Content
Era
Came
Beef
His
Pipe
Manhattan
Apparently
Dad
Briefcase
Received
Almost 50 years old now, some 30 years after graduation, I look at my Caltech classmates and conclude that math whizzes do not take over the world.
Sandra Tsing Loh
World
Old
Some
Classmates
Take
Almost
Over
Look
Conclude
Math
Years
Graduation
After
Now
A deep river of must-have school mania runs through the chattering classes. There is, of course, the parental adrenaline rush at suburban cocktail parties that comes from announcing one's son or daughter as an Ivy Leaguer.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Son
School
Daughter
Cocktail
Runs
Classes
Rush
Parental
Adrenaline
Through
Chattering
River
Announcing
Parties
Course
Ivy
Mania
Suburban
Deep
Things need shaking up when American women feel endangered even as Yosemite bears lumber around belching, their eyes glazed with surfeit, their pelts covered in Oreo crumbs.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Eyes
Women
Shaking
Bears
Crumbs
Feel
Around
Covered
Up
Endangered
American
Yosemite
American Women
Even
Lumber
Things
Need
Having blown up my own long-term marriage via an extramarital affair, followed by a traumatic divorce, I tend to think of love as less a gently glowing hearth than a set of flaming train tracks you strap yourself onto.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Love
You
Marriage
Yourself
Own
Think
Followed
My Own
Having
Tend
Onto
Divorce
Long-Term
Tracks
Gently
Glowing
Affair
Up
Train
Than
Hearth
Blown
Via
Flaming
Less
Traumatic
Set
I will never do Pilates. I walk.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Walk
Will
Never
Pilates
Menopause is your return to where you were before, when your hormone levels are the same as a pre-adolescent girl's.
Sandra Tsing Loh
You
Girl
Before
Menopause
Return
Were
Same
Where
Your
Levels
My generation is so used to having our public spaces look like the Starbucks, with the beautiful lighting and the little bit of Nina Simone and my coffee that's blended a certain way from Costa Rica.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Beautiful
Generation
Coffee
Nina
Nina Simone
Our
Way
Bit
My Generation
Costa Rica
Having
Lighting
Blended
Like
Look
Spaces
Public
Little
Little Bit
Certain
Used
Certain Way
Starbucks
I really don't think our school system is an evil borg force. It's sort of like the government. It's not even efficient enough to be a borg of total evil, even if it wanted to be.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Government
School
Evil
Think
Enough
Our
System
Total
School System
Like
Force
Sort
Efficient
Wanted
Really
Even
I am shamed to realize that in my marriage, my daughters never heard their father and me fight, which also meant, perhaps, that we didn't truly communicate.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Me
Fight
Marriage
Communicate
Father
Daughters
Shamed
Never
Perhaps
Also
Am
Heard
Truly
Which
Realize
Meant
In our youths, many of us suspected that being tied down to a partner and family might constrain us. But after 40, even that landscape starts to shift. Many singletons turn inward and start longing for the things so many of us longed to be free of in our 20s.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Family
Free
Longing
Partner
Down
Starts
Our
Constrain
Inward
Tied
Shift
Suspected
Being
After
Might
Turn
Us
Landscape
Youths
Many
Even
Things
Start
Journalists are quite surprised outside their dinner parties when they hear where I live. 'Van Nuys? You still live there?' It is like saying you're from Alabama.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Saying
You
Dinner
Live
Van
Dinner Parties
Outside
Journalists
Like
Parties
Still
Surprised
Hear
Quite
Where
Alabama
I think my father, who was Chinese, basically felt if we didn't major in science, we would starve on the streets, so we all went into science unquestioningly. I kind of faked my way through physics.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Science
Physics
Father
Think
Starve
Way
Kind
Would
Through
Major
Felt
Chinese
Who
Streets
Basically
I think private school is much better at customer service and making the parents feel better, especially in Los Angeles. It's almost like a spa for the parents where you drop your kids off, where they give you a beautifully baked thing and let the parents write their own newsletter about global warming.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Service
You
Better
School
Parents
Drop
Own
Think
Kids
Angeles
About
Give
Write
Almost
Feel
Like
Global
Baked
Global Warming
Beautifully
Making
Los
Los Angeles
Private
Off
Private School
Where
Customer
Customer Service
Warming
Much
Your
Thing
I think live music is really, really important. And I think it's very important to do together. It's much more fun to play to music together than the one person listening to their lone iPod Shuffle. I think it's an amazing way to build community and have children do things that are funded that's not a videogame.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Music
Together
Amazing
Listening
Important
Build
Community
Live
Think
Way
Lone
More
iPod
Very
Than
Person
Children
Much
Really
Fun
Live Music
Play
Shuffle
Things
The problem is that, partly because we are women, a large measure of our happiness depends on our relationships - including, unavoidably, our relationships with men.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Happiness
Women
Problem
Men
Relationships
Our
Partly
Because
Depends
Measure
Large
Large Measure
Including
In 1900, the average life expectancy of a US citizen was 48, so most menopausal women were dead, which is not a great place to be.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Life
Great
Women
Citizen
Life Expectancy
Great Place
Most
Dead
Were
Expectancy
Place
Which
Average
Us
The paradox is, I can't miss the good things about my father while he is alive, but I will of course miss him... when he is dead.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Good
Good Things
Father
Will
Alive
Paradox
About
He
Miss
Dead
Him
Course
While
Things
When I think of Chinese parents, I think of people who weep upon hearing Beethoven, but who can't necessarily bring that joy to others.
Sandra Tsing Loh
People
Joy
Parents
Think
Others
Weep
Beethoven
Hearing
Chinese
Who
Necessarily
Bring
Although my life is far from perfect, the irony is that in a divorced parent's custody schedule - with days on and days off - instead of like it was before, when I felt ragged and still oddly guilty all the time, now I feel guilty but not ragged.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Life
Time
Custody
My Life
Before
Guilty
Parent
Perfect
Schedule
Divorced
Instead
Feel
Days
Like
Although
Felt
Still
Oddly
Off
Irony
Far
Ragged
Now
Whether you wish to chant 'Our houses, our selves' or 'We have houses, hear us roar,' for us women, home is where the heart is.
Sandra Tsing Loh
Home
You
Heart
Women
Wish
Chant
Our
Roar
Houses
Hear
Selves
Where
Whether
Us
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