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Rachel Simmons
American
Author
Girl
Me
Parents
Work
You
Yourself
Related authors:
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
Henry David Thoreau
Joyce Meyer
Mark Twain
Og Mandino
Zig Ziglar
Ours is not a culture that cares much for the work of care.
Rachel Simmons
Work
Culture
Care
Cares
Ours
Much
As parents, we must be mindful that our actions are matching our words.
Rachel Simmons
Words
Parents
Mindful
Our
Must
Matching
Actions
Many of us endure pain in the service of beauty every single day. We rip off our hair with hot wax, jam our soft skin into modern-day corsets, and burn our scalps with dyes.
Rachel Simmons
Service
Day
Hair
Beauty
Single
Skin
Pain
Every
Our
Wax
Corsets
Rip
Hot
Single Day
Off
Jam
Burn
Endure
Modern-Day
Us
Many
Every Single Day
Soft
Girls must understand not only their moral obligation but their power to be allies to each other at parties and other potentially unsafe spaces for girls.
Rachel Simmons
Obligation
Moral Obligation
Girl
Power
Other
Moral
Must
Only
Potentially
Allies
Unsafe
Parties
Understand
Spaces
Each
From childhood to adolescence, girls face mixed messages about displaying power and authority.
Rachel Simmons
Face
Girl
Power
About
Adolescence
Messages
Mixed
Authority
Childhood
Displaying
Isn't prom just a fun dance that hardworking students deserve? Sure, but it's also an event where girls internalize damaging cultural messages.
Rachel Simmons
Dance
Girl
Prom
Students
Also
Messages
Sure
Cultural
Just
Where
Internalize
Fun
Event
Deserve
Hardworking
Damaging
To defer to someone else's definition of a life well-lived is a Faustian bargain.
Rachel Simmons
Life
Defer
Else
Definition
Someone
Bargain
The Internet has transformed the landscape of children's social lives, moving cliques from lunchrooms and lockers to live chats and online bulletin boards and intensifying their reach and power.
Rachel Simmons
Internet
Power
Live
Online
Reach
Cliques
Children
Transformed
Boards
Moving
Social
Landscape
Lives
Most parents would not hesitate to assume responsibility for their child's behavior on a playground, at school, or in someone else's home. What happens online should be no different. Parents should talk with their children about computer ethics, stipulate rules of conduct, and - most importantly - establish consequences.
Rachel Simmons
Home
School
Behavior
Ethics
Responsibility
Parents
Consequences
Assume
Else
Hesitate
Rules
Would
About
Someone
Online
Computer
Most
Talk
Importantly
Conduct
Child
Establish
Children
Different
Happens
Should
Playground
When I did the original research for 'Odd Girl Out,' I asked every bullied girl I interviewed to tell me what she needed most from her family. The answer truly surprised me. It wasn't having the best solutions, calling the school, or trying to act like everything was okay. It was empathy.
Rachel Simmons
Best
Family
Me
School
Girl
Research
Every
Everything
Okay
Out
Tell
Solutions
Having
Empathy
Like
Most
She
Calling
Answer
Odd
Surprised
Bullied
Truly
Trying
Did
Asked
Act
Original
Her
Needed
Empathy isn't the same thing as expressing emotions. It's not about sharing your feelings - it can be really uncomfortable if a parent cries or loses strength at the moment her daughter needs it most. The message sent is that you need to be taken care of, not the other way around.
Rachel Simmons
Strength
Needs
You
Emotions
Care
Daughter
Feelings
Same Thing
Other
Cries
Way
About
Parent
Uncomfortable
Taken
Sharing
Empathy
Most
Message
Around
Loses
Same
Sent
Really
Your
Moment
Expressing
Her
Thing
Need
A girl's social networking profile is a persona she constructs, a photoshopped billboard on the information superhighway. It also offers a salve for the anxiety so many girls feel about relationships, providing the answers to burning social questions like, What do other people think of me? Do people like me? Am I normal? Am I popular? Am I cool?
Rachel Simmons
Me
People
Anxiety
Girl
Think
Other
Relationships
About
Networking
Constructs
Feel
Like
Also
She
Am
Answers
Normal
Providing
Questions
Offers
Persona
Burning
Information
Social
Billboard
Cool
Many
Popular
Profile
Social media forces girls to bear witness to painful realities of relationship that were previously hidden from view. It is a new kind of TMI, or 'too much information': publicly posted photographs of an outing or party you did not attend, or a personal web page like Formspring, can send a girl into paroxysms of anxiety and grief.
Rachel Simmons
Relationship
You
Grief
Anxiety
Witness
Social Media
Too Much
Girl
Party
Too
Hidden
Kind
Photographs
Posted
Outing
Web
Bear
Attend
New
Like
Forces
New Kind
Were
Did
Personal
Send
Information
Realities
Social
Much
Page
View
Painful
Media
Publicly
My experience is that aggression is a universal trait in human beings - girls feel it in any sort of environment, same-sex or co-ed.
Rachel Simmons
Experience
Girl
Environment
Feel
Sort
Trait
Any
Human
Same-Sex
Human Beings
Aggression
Beings
Universal
Happiness doesn't just happen. It must be pursued. And if the pursuit of the 'ultimate currency' of happiness helps us choose occupations that confer present and future benefit, and these choices, in turn, motivate us to succeed, this strikes me as perhaps the most powerful non-cognitive skill of all.
Rachel Simmons
Happiness
Future
Me
Benefit
Strikes
Must
Pursued
Pursuit
Powerful
Perhaps
Most
Most Powerful
Occupations
Motivate
Ultimate
Currency
Just
Happen
Succeed
Turn
Us
Skill
Choices
Choose
Helps
Present
It's not easy to let our kids be less than perfect.
Rachel Simmons
Our
Kids
Easy
Perfect
Than
Less
Raising your hand when you're not sure you have the right answer helps you take risks with your ideas and put yourself out there.
Rachel Simmons
You
Risks
Yourself
Out
Take
Put
Ideas
Sure
Answer
Hand
Your
Helps
Right
Right Answer
Raising
Girls who use jokes to be nasty are often hiding other feelings they are struggling to express.
Rachel Simmons
Jokes
Girl
Feelings
Other
Hiding
Struggling
Nasty
Often
Use
Who
Express
Feeling jealous doesn't make you a terrible person.
Rachel Simmons
Jealous
You
Feeling
Make
Terrible
Person
Our friends are barometers of our own lives: We look to our BFFs to better understand how we're doing ourselves. Our friends help us make sense of what we have, what we aspire to, and what we truly long for.
Rachel Simmons
Better
Long
Own
Sense
Our
Ourselves
Look
Make
Understand
How
Doing
Truly
Friends
Us
Aspire
Help
Lives
Being jealous of a friend doesn't mean you hate her or wish her ill.
Rachel Simmons
Jealous
You
Hate
Wish
Friend
Being
Mean
Ill
Her
I realized that I wanted a Rhodes Scholarship, not because I wanted to go to graduate school but because I wanted to win a famous award. Quitting forced me to realize I was on the wrong track and that I had lost touch with who I was and what I cared about.
Rachel Simmons
Me
Win
School
Lost
About
Touch
Had
Scholarship
Wrong
Forced
Track
Because
Go
Graduate
Graduate School
Famous
Quitting
Wanted
Realize
Realized
Who
Award
Cared
Real body satisfaction starts when you learn to see yourself for more than your weight.
Rachel Simmons
You
Yourself
Starts
See
More
Weight
Learn
Real
Than
Body
Your
Satisfaction
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