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Helen Fisher
American
Scientist
Born:
1947
Love
Men
People
Think
Women
You
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Why do we feel jealousy? Therapists often regard the demon as a scar of childhood trauma or a symptom of a psychological problem. And it's true that people who feel inadequate, insecure, or overly dependent tend to be more jealous than others.
Helen Fisher
Jealous
Jealousy
People
Problem
Others
Symptom
Insecure
Scar
More
Tend
True
Feel
Demon
Overly
Than
Often
Childhood
Dependent
Regard
Psychological
Inadequate
Therapists
Who
Trauma
Why
Jealousy can even be good for love. One partner may feel secretly flattered when the other is mildly jealous. And catching someone flirting with your beloved can spark the kind of lust and romance that reignites a relationship.
Helen Fisher
Love
Jealous
Jealousy
Good
Relationship
Partner
Lust
Other
Secretly
Kind
Someone
Feel
Catching
May
Romance
Flattered
Spark
Your
Even
Flirting
Beloved
When you massage someone, the levels of oxytocin go up in the brain, and oxytocin is one of the chemicals that drives attachment.
Helen Fisher
You
Someone
Attachment
Drives
Massage
Chemicals
Go
Brain
Up
Levels
Your sweetheart calls you by another's name. His eyes linger too long on your best friend. He talks with excitement about a girl at work. And the fire catches. Jealousy - that sickening combination of possessiveness, suspicion, rage, and humiliation - can overtake your mind and threaten your very core as you contemplate your rival.
Helen Fisher
Work
Jealousy
Best
You
Eyes
Humiliation
Mind
Girl
Long
Fire
Rage
Too
Sickening
Best Friend
Threaten
About
Rival
He
Excitement
Combination
Contemplate
Name
Another
Calls
Talks
His
Linger
Friend
Overtake
Very
Suspicion
Your
Sweetheart
Core
Once you fall for someone, their smell can be a powerful thing. Women will wear their boyfriends' T-shirts, and throughout tales in history men have held on to their lover's handkerchief.
Helen Fisher
History
You
Women
Will
Men
Smell
Fall
Lover
Once
Wear
Someone
Throughout
Powerful
Powerful Thing
Tales
Boyfriend
Handkerchief
Held
Thing
Sometimes we fall in love with somebody who will probably never love us, for reasons having nothing to do with us but with their own mindset, their chemistry.
Helen Fisher
Love
Sometimes
Will
Somebody
Chemistry
Fall
Own
Nothing
Mindset
Having
Never
Us
Who
Reasons
Women are better at reading body language everywhere in the world. As a matter of fact, it's associated with the female hormone estrogen. Women are better at figuring out of tone of voice, reading your face and posture and gesture.
Helen Fisher
Women
World
Better
Matter
Language
Face
Reading
Gesture
Everywhere
Out
Posture
Voice
Fact
Female
Women Are
Body
Body Language
Your
Figuring
Tone
Associated
When chimps threaten, they open their mouth and show their teeth. It's a little like waving a knife in front of you. It's very primitive, and therefore bizarre.
Helen Fisher
You
Mouth
Teeth
Waving
Bizarre
Threaten
Open
Knife
Primitive
Like
Very
Front
Little
Show
Therefore
The reason you take antidepressants is to feel calm. And romantic love is not calm - it's elation, it's mood swings, and you're killing all that when you take the drug.
Helen Fisher
Love
You
Love Is
Calm
Mood
Mood Swings
Take
Feel
Romantic
Romantic Love
Elation
Reason
Swings
Research shows that couples who have a lot of similarities, including intellectual compatibility, end up staying together.
Helen Fisher
Together
Research
Staying
Similarities
Couples
Intellectual
Lot
End
Up
Who
Shows
Including
Compatibility
Until recently, we regarded love as supernatural. We were willing to study the brain chemistry of fear and depression and anger but not love.
Helen Fisher
Love
Depression
Anger
Fear
Chemistry
Willing
Supernatural
Study
Until
Were
Brain
Regarded
Recently
Kissing is not just kissing. It is a major escalation or de-escalation point in a powerful process of mate choice.
Helen Fisher
Kissing
Point
Powerful
Major
Mate
Escalation
Just
Process
Choice
There is more and more data indicating that there is a biological basis to your political views.
Helen Fisher
Political
Data
More
More And More
Political Views
Your
Views
Biological
Basis
We're apt to fall in love with those who are mysterious and challenging to us.
Helen Fisher
Love
Fall
Those
Apt
Mysterious
Us
Who
Challenging
Anthropologists have found evidence of romantic love in 170 societies. They've never found a society that did not have it.
Helen Fisher
Love
Society
Evidence
Never
Did
Romantic
Romantic Love
Found
Societies
Men and women are like two feet; they can help each other get ahead.
Helen Fisher
Women
Men
Men And Women
Other
Feet
Like
Women Are
Get
Help
Each
Two
A Rolex watch or an expensive car are the things guys often use to show status, wealth, and basic desirability.
Helen Fisher
Wealth
Car
Status
Guys
Often
Expensive
Use
Show
Basic
Things
Watch
Desirability
You don't come home from the office to spend time with another job. Hopefully you come home to someone you can have a good time with.
Helen Fisher
Time
Good
Home
You
Job
Good Time
Spend
Hopefully
Someone
Come
Another
Office
Men have a psychological need to show off their courage and strength. When he sees you talking to another guy, that instinct kicks in and he jumps to protect you and prove he's worthy of your love.
Helen Fisher
Love
Strength
You
Courage
Men
Show Off
Kicks
Worthy
Guy
Sees
He
Instinct
Protect
Talking
Another
Prove
Off
Jumps
Psychological
Your
Show
Need
In America, we are demanding everything from our marriage.
Helen Fisher
Marriage
Demanding
Our
Everything
America
Since when is anyone truly honest with anyone?
Helen Fisher
Since
Truly
Anyone
Honest
Office romances are few, short, and not usually destructive.
Helen Fisher
Few
Destructive
Office
Short
Romances
In that early-love stage, you're in that state of exhilaration. You talk till dawn. You become obsessed with 'What does he think?' 'Does he like me?' 'Does he think I'm fat?'
Helen Fisher
Me
You
Become
Stage
Think
State
Dawn
He
Obsessed
Like
Talk
Does
Till
Exhilaration
Fat
When you're in the throes of this romantic love, it's overwhelming - you're out of control, you're irrational, you're going to the gym at 6 A.M. every day - Why? Because she's there.
Helen Fisher
Love
Day
You
Every Day
Overwhelming
Control
Every
Out
Gym
She
Because
Irrational
Going
Romantic
Romantic Love
Why
You can really get poked in the back and not feel it very much, but just a feather around your lips and you really do feel it.
Helen Fisher
You
Back
Feather
Poked
Feel
Around
Very
Get
Lips
Just
Much
Really
Your
My hypothesis is that conservative Republicans have very clear values, and when you have that, you're simply more relaxed.
Helen Fisher
You
Conservative
Values
Relaxed
More
Hypothesis
Clear
Simply
Very
Republicans
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