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Hari Nef
American
Actress
Born:
Oct 21
,
1992
Me
People
Think
Time
Woman
You
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It's time for the aesthetics of upwardly mobile feminist respectability to make room for the aesthetics of survival, particularly trans survival.
Hari Nef
Time
Survival
Respectability
Particularly
Make
Aesthetic
Feminist
Mobile
Room
I like to let my skin breathe, I don't like to stress it out. I don't like to put it through very much.
Hari Nef
Stress
Skin
Out
Through
Put
Like
Very
Breathe
Much
There have been moments where I've had to question the way I've used social media and change it. Not because anything was wrong or right but because my needs had changed, and my perspective had changed.
Hari Nef
Needs
Change
Perspective
Social Media
Changed
Way
Had
Wrong
Because
Been
Question
Where
Anything
Social
Used
Moments
Media
Right
I want to start the trans mafia one day.
Hari Nef
Day
One Day
Mafia
Want
Start
What we really need to look at is gender fluidity and the idea that gender can be customised however you want.
Hari Nef
You
Gender
Fluidity
Idea
Look
However
Want
Really
Need
I'm a much better actor as a girl than I was as a guy.
Hari Nef
Better
Girl
Guy
Better Actor
Than
Much
Actor
Fashion gave me my start, and that will always be my home. I'll always be so grateful for all my collaborators and friends I've made there, but I'm so excited to dive head first into just being a working actor.
Hari Nef
Fashion
Home
Me
Grateful
Will
Made
First
Gave
Collaborators
Dive
Excited
Head
Always
Friends
Just
Being
Working
Working Actor
Actor
Start
When you're making an independent film, there is no guarantee that anyone is going to see it, ever.
Hari Nef
You
Independent
Independent Film
See
No Guarantee
Making
Going
Anyone
Film
Ever
Guarantee
My desire to be an actor or a model precedes my identity.
Hari Nef
Identity
Precedes
Model
Actor
Desire
What's infuriating is when cis people think celebrating me is celebrating transness.
Hari Nef
Me
People
Think
Celebrating
Infuriating
When we say 'trans is beautiful' or 'being trans is the best,' that is a truth we created for ourselves that's clearly not true in every signal we get from the world around us.
Hari Nef
Beautiful
Truth
Best
World
Every
Say
Signal
Ourselves
True
Clearly
Around
Get
Being
Us
Created
I like shows for atmosphere. I don't know, I think a plot-driven show is so boring and masc4masc and gross.
Hari Nef
Think
Boring
Atmosphere
Like
Know
Gross
Show
Shows
People feel emboldened to say things on the Internet they wouldn't in person.
Hari Nef
People
Internet
Say
Feel
Person
Things
When you're a teenager, everything is amplified because everything is a first. The first time you feel othered, the first time you feel rejected, the first time you fall in love... it's the first time, so it's so vivid, and everything feels like the whole world almost, because it is your whole world; your world is small when you're a teenager.
Hari Nef
Love
Time
You
World
First
Fall
Teenager
Everything
Vivid
Small
Almost
Feel
Feels
Like
Because
First Time
Your
Whole
Amplified
Rejected
I always think I look dead, but I never actually do.
Hari Nef
Think
Never
Look
Dead
Always
Actually
I was never good at being a boy, but I was always a good student.
Hari Nef
Good
Good Student
Student
Never
Boy
Always
Being
If I get too glam and polished and pretty, people are like, 'Hari, why aren't you speaking up about issues?' And if I start speaking up about issues, people are like, 'Why can't you just be an actress?'
Hari Nef
You
People
Just Be
Too
Pretty
About
Glam
Like
Polished
Issues
Up
Get
Just
Speaking
Actress
Why
Start
I've certainly been in situations where I've been rejected and endangered and had my humanity put in question - just as almost every woman on the planet has.
Hari Nef
Woman
Humanity
Every
Had
Put
Almost
Been
Question
Endangered
Situations
Just
Where
Planet
Certainly
Rejected
I couldn't remember when I'd stopped willing to be trans and started wanting to be trans. If there were a difference, I'd forgotten it.
Hari Nef
Remember
Willing
Remember When
Were
Stopped
Forgotten
Difference
Wanting
Started
When I don't wear makeup, it's not because I'm lazy, but it's me making this radical bid for the feminization of my body and being confident in that.
Hari Nef
Me
Radical
Wear
Lazy
Bid
Because
Makeup
Making
Confident
Being
Body
If I ever called myself an activist, I regret it, and I was cornered into it by an industry who couldn't justify me taking up space without saying that I had some kind of radical political agenda because they saw my participation as a radical political thing. Which it was not.
Hari Nef
Saying
Myself
Me
Regret
Political
Space
Radical
Cornered
Saw
Kind
Some
Had
Taking
Participation
Industry
Because
Without
Political Agenda
Up
Which
Justify
Agenda
Who
Activist
Ever
Thing
Fashion has always captivated me because, like I said, it has the potential to create narratives about what's beautiful, aspirational, chic, masculine, feminine, glamorous, etc. Generally, this power is dispatched in useless ways.
Hari Nef
Beautiful
Fashion
Me
Power
Ways
About
Potential
Glamorous
Generally
Masculine
Like
Because
Narratives
Said
Always
Feminine
Chic
Etc
Create
Useless
Captivated
Trans-dating is hardcore, and it's really scary. And that's coming from me, someone who couldn't be dating in a more open-minded Manhattan pool of artsy boys and creative folk. Not saying it all sucks. I'm just saying it's not easy.
Hari Nef
Saying
Me
Creative
Pool
Folk
Easy
Scary
Someone
More
Dating
Open-Minded
Boy
Coming
Just
Manhattan
Really
Who
Sucks
Hardcore
I had family who exposed me to all sorts of different media involving actors - films, theatrical productions touring through Boston. My grandparents, particularly my mother's parents, were huge fans of all the arts, and they took me to these shows and exhibits at a very young age, so I was just immersed in it.
Hari Nef
Family
Me
Age
Mother
Fans
Parents
Young
Films
Took
Immersed
Boston
Through
Had
Touring
Particularly
Involving
Sort
Were
Huge
Very
Just
Arts
Young Age
Different
Theatrical
Grandparents
Productions
Who
Exposed
Shows
Media
Actor
I admire actresses who are willing to jettison the easy route toward exposure and commercial success as an actor in favor or a slow burn, choosing projects carefully, and building an artistic practice over time that feels specific to who they are as artists.
Hari Nef
Success
Time
Slow
Practice
Building
Carefully
Projects
Favor
Willing
Easy
Admire
Toward
Over
Feels
Commercial
Commercial Success
Artistic
Artists
Burn
Choosing
Who
Exposure
Actor
Actress
Specific
Route
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