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Alain de Botton Quotes
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Alain de Botton
English
Writer
Born:
Dec 20
,
1969
Life
Love
Me
People
Think
You
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I assemble my ideas in pieces on a computer file, then gradually find a place for them on a piece of scaffolding I erect.
Alain de Botton
Scaffolding
Find
Computer
Ideas
Piece
Pieces
Erect
Gradually
Place
Them
Then
File
Assemble
I was foreign and Jewish, with a funny name, and was very small and hated sport, a real problem at an English prep school. So the way to get round it was to become the school joker, which I did quite effectively - I was always fooling around to make the people who would otherwise dump me in the loo laugh.
Alain de Botton
Funny
Me
People
Problem
School
Become
Otherwise
Way
Laugh
Would
Hated
Small
Fooling
Joker
Name
Sport
Make
Around
Always
Foreign
Real
Dump
Effectively
Very
Get
Did
Real Problem
Quite
Which
English
Who
Prep
Round
Jewish
I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
Alain de Botton
Relationship
Job
Living
About
Perfect
Perfect Job
Excuse
Because
Learnt
Stop
Actually
There are few more effective ways to promote tolerance between suspicious neighbours than to force them to eat supper together.
Alain de Botton
Together
Few
Tolerance
Ways
Neighbours
Promote
Eat
More
Supper
Between
Force
Effective
Than
Suspicious
Them
There's something called religion, and it was invented a long time ago by people who felt very out of control with their lives, who didn't know... why the sun always rose over the mountains.
Alain de Botton
Time
Religion
People
Long
Long Time
Mountains
Control
Rose
Sun
Out
Something
Invented
Long Time Ago
Over
Know
Felt
Always
Very
Who
Why
Lives
The death of marriage has been announced so often and would seem so normal, in a sense. So what's surprising is the sheer longevity and tenacity of this institution.
Alain de Botton
Death
Marriage
Sense
Has-Been
Would
Seem
Tenacity
Announced
Longevity
Institution
Sheer
Been
Surprising
Normal
Often
I fell in love with Norman Mailer's 'Of a Fire on the Moon', a description of the 1969 moon landing and the society that had produced NASA - and was inspired by him to begin a kind of anthropology of modern life.
Alain de Botton
Life
Love
Moon
Fire
Society
Kind
Inspired
Had
Fell
Him
NASA
Anthropology
Begin
Norman
Modern
Modern Life
Landing
Produced
Description
We are properly ready for marriage when we are strong enough to embrace a life of frustration.
Alain de Botton
Life
Marriage
Frustration
Strong
Enough
Embrace
Properly
Ready
Since the beginning of the 20th century, the public's relationship to art has been weakened by a profound institutional reluctance to address the question of what art is for. This is a question that has, quite unfairly, come to feel impatient, illegitimate, and a little impudent.
Alain de Botton
Art
Relationship
Beginning
Address
Weakened
Has-Been
Impatient
Reluctance
Feel
Since
Come
Institutional
Been
Question
Quite
Unfairly
Public
Little
Century
Illegitimate
Profound
I believe that art is a tool and that, like all tools, it has functions. I also think it is important to know what the tool is for so that we can better know how and when to use it.
Alain de Botton
Art
Better
Important
Believe
Think
Tool
Tools
Like
Know
Also
How
Use
Functions
Where is instruction in relationships, in the management of career, in the raising of children, in the pursuit of friendship, in the wise approach to anxiety and death? All this sort of stuff I craved to learn about when I was a student and down to this day.
Alain de Botton
Friendship
Death
Day
Wise
Management
Anxiety
Down
Approach
Relationships
About
Pursuit
Student
Stuff
Instruction
Learn
Sort
Where
Children
Career
Raising
I was uncomfortable writing fiction. My love was the personal essay, rather than the novel.
Alain de Botton
Love
Writing
Rather
Uncomfortable
Than
Personal
Essay
Fiction
Novel
It's clear to me that there is no good reason for many philosophy books to sound as complicated as they do.
Alain de Botton
Good
Me
Complicated
Books
Philosophy
Good Reason
Clear
Sound
Reason
Many
Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
Alain de Botton
Happy
Insist
Writers
Also
Terrible
Am
Interesting
Hegel
Kant
Thinkers
Pick up any newspaper or magazine, open the TV, and you'll be bombarded with suggestions of how to have a successful life. Some of these suggestions are deeply unhelpful to our own projects and priorities - and we should take care.
Alain de Botton
Life
You
Care
Own
Our
Projects
TV
Magazine
Some
Take
Open
Pick
Take Care
Priorities
How
Up
Any
Unhelpful
Newspaper
Successful
Should
Bombarded
Deeply
Suggestions
The Arab-Israeli conflict is also in many ways a conflict about status: it's a war between two peoples who feel deeply humiliated by the other, who want the other to respect them. Battles over status can be even more intractable than those over land or water or oil.
Alain de Botton
War
Respect
Conflict
People
Water
Humiliated
Other
Ways
Those
Intractable
Battles
Status
About
More
Feel
Between
Over
Also
Than
Oil
Want
Them
Land
Who
Many
Even
Deeply
Two
We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
Alain de Botton
Respect
People
Otherwise
Secure
Would
Seek
Through
Attention
Look
Greater
Than
May
Straight
Us
Fortune
Reason
Who
Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn't find anyone to talk to.
Alain de Botton
Destination
Valuable
Lonely
Books
Find
Given
Written
Most
Talk
Because
Were
Authors
Anyone
Numbers
I am always anxious.
Alain de Botton
Always
Am
Anxious
All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
Alain de Botton
Me
Waiting
People
Humiliation
Fly
Jet
Once
Almost
Tours
Him
Venue
Hired
Private
Were
Where
Filled
Publisher
Never, ever become a writer. It's a nightmare.
Alain de Botton
Become
Writer
Never
Ever
Nightmare
My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
Alain de Botton
Writing
Out
Stay
Attempt
Always
Came
Very
Personal
Place
Sane
I am not a foodie, thank goodness. I will eat pretty much anything. A lot of my friends are getting incredibly fussy about food and I see it as a bit of an affliction.
Alain de Botton
Food
Will
Goodness
Affliction
Incredibly
Bit
Fussy
See
Eat
Pretty
About
Pretty Much Anything
Am
Lot
Friends
Thank
Thank Goodness
Getting
Anything
Much
I went to church and couldn't swallow it. The music was nice but I don't belong there.
Alain de Botton
Music
Church
Nice
Swallow
Belong
Work is a way of bringing order to chaos, and there's a basic satisfaction in seeing that we are able to make something a little more coherent by the end of the day.
Alain de Botton
Work
Day
End Of The Day
Chaos
Way
Able
Seeing
Something
More
Make
End
Order
Little
Satisfaction
Basic
Bringing
Coherent
Many moments in religion seem attractive to me even though I can't believe in any of it.
Alain de Botton
Religion
Me
Believe
Though
Seem
Attractive
Any
Many
Moments
Even
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