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Sheila Heti
Canadian
Writer
Born:
Dec 25
,
1976
About
Life
People
Think
Writing
You
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The reason I write is because I have questions. What I don't want is for people to forget that I'm a novelist and think I'm a sociologist or something. I don't want to feel trapped into a corner where I don't belong.
Sheila Heti
People
Trapped
Think
Corner
Something
Write
Feel
Because
Questions
Forget
Where
Want
Reason
Novelist
Belong
An artist's love for what they create is what creates love.
Sheila Heti
Love
Artist
Create
Creates
Tove Jansson was the most successful Finnish illustrator and writer of children's books of her day, and she was the most widely read Finn abroad. She began her life as an artist early - she had her first drawing published at fifteen.
Sheila Heti
Life
Day
First
Books
Drawing
Abroad
Finnish
Writer
Had
Most
She
Read
Began
Artist
Children
Fifteen
Successful
Published
Her
Illustrator
Widely
Early
Laurie Simmons began showing her photographs in New York in the late '70s: black-and-white and then candy-colored scenarios with plastic dolls in 1950s-style domestic interiors.
Sheila Heti
Late
Photographs
Scenarios
New
Dolls
Domestic
Began
York
New York
Then
Interiors
Plastic
Showing
Her
I remember where I was when I wrote that story, 'Mermaid in a Jar.' I was at a boyfriend's, and he was the only boy I ever dated who was rich, and his parents had a ski chalet, and I just didn't know how to break up with him, so I decided I would be celibate.
Sheila Heti
Remember
Parents
Rich
Would
Would-Be
Only
Dated
Had
He
Mermaid
Know
Wrote
Him
Boy
How
Boyfriend
His
Up
Celibate
Just
Where
Break
Break Up
Decided
Story
Jar
Ski
Who
Ever
Women, post-menopause, go back to how they were before they started menstruating, and there's this great freedom in a woman's life when she reaches the end of that reproductive cycle, and that most women come into their own strength, the same strength they had as a girl.
Sheila Heti
Life
Strength
Great
Freedom
Woman
Women
Girl
Before
Own
Back
Had
Come
Most
She
How
Go
Were
End
Same
Reproductive
Cycle
Started
I remember very vividly a little plaid dress on which my father sewed all these hanging beads, little horses and stuff. It was my favourite thing ever. I had it when I was four, and I kept it until I was 12, when I gave it to the little neighbour girl. For years, I regretted giving it to her, even though I had no use for it.
Sheila Heti
Remember
Father
Girl
Giving
Gave
Though
Neighbour
Favourite
Dress
Vividly
Beads
Horses
Had
Stuff
Until
Years
Very
Hanging
Which
Little
Regretted
Use
Even
Ever
Her
Thing
Four
Kept
It took me five or six years to write 'How Should a Person Be?' and there were many times when I felt discouraged.
Sheila Heti
Me
Discouraged
Took
Write
Felt
How
Were
Years
Five
Times
Person
Six
Should
Many
I'm happy that I wrote 'How Should a Person Be?' and I wouldn't have written that exact book if we had just done the play. So much of the book is about the anxiety of failure - the failure of the play and the failure of the divorce and the failure of not feeling like a good person.
Sheila Heti
Good
Failure
Happy
Book
Anxiety
Good Person
Feeling
Exact
About
Had
Written
Divorce
Like
Wrote
How
Person
Done
Just
Much
Should
Play
For myself, I feel more natural writing stories or novels than writing plays. I feel more like myself, like I can express myself better, and like I have a greater clarity about what I want to do.
Sheila Heti
Myself
Natural
Writing
Better
Clarity
About
More
Feel
Like
Greater
Than
Want
Stories
Express
Novels
Plays
I think I prefer writing books because the work of art begins and ends with you - it's easier to know if you're doing it right, as opposed to writing a play and then waiting around for somebody else to complete it.
Sheila Heti
Work
Art
You
Waiting
Writing
Somebody
Think
Else
Complete
Books
Easier
Know
Because
Around
Doing
Opposed
Begins
Ends
Prefer
Then
Play
Right
Most fiction writers are driven to find their own 'voice,' but I am more interested in the voices of others.
Sheila Heti
Own
Others
Find
More
Voice
Voices
Writers
Driven
Most
Am
Fiction
Fiction Writers
Interested
I don't wear shoes that are going to give me any pain. I just cannot do that.
Sheila Heti
Me
Shoes
Pain
Wear
Give
Give Me
Any
Going
Just
Cannot
There's something threatening about a woman who is not occupied with children... What sort of trouble will she make?
Sheila Heti
Woman
Will
Trouble
Threatening
About
Something
She
Make
Sort
Occupied
Children
Who
I remember going over proofs of this book - my first book - back in 2001, in a bar in Toronto called the 'Victory Cafe', and thinking sadly to myself, 'This is a very good manuscript but not a very good book.' I don't know what I meant by that, but I was pretty heartbroken and sure it was true.
Sheila Heti
Myself
Good
Book
Cafe
Remember
Victory
First
Thinking
Back
Toronto
Pretty
True
Over
Sadly
Know
Sure
Very
Heartbroken
Going
Bar
Meant
Good Book
Manuscript
I just always try to respond to what I'm most interested in at the moment - that hasn't changed.
Sheila Heti
Try
Changed
Respond
Most
Always
Just
Interested
Moment
We're so sure of what our unlived lives would have been like that we feel guilty for not living them - for not living up to our potential.
Sheila Heti
Living
Our
Guilty
Would
Potential
Feel
Like
Sure
Been
Up
Them
Lives
Our delusions of omniscience play a role in our ideas of not only what we want but also what we want to escape.
Sheila Heti
Our
Only
Delusions
Ideas
Also
Escape
Role
Want
Play
Stand-up comedians have a very important relationship to Twitter. For them, it's a place to try out material.
Sheila Heti
Relationship
Try
Important
Twitter
Out
Comedians
Material
Very
Place
Them
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