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My father paid for my education; then he made it clear that I was on my own.
Alain de Botton
Education
Father
Made
Own
My Own
He
Clear
Then
Paid
There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
Alain de Botton
People
Looking
Significant
About
Most
Annoys
Learn
May
Them
Things
I think I have grown impatient with just being a writer.
Alain de Botton
Think
Impatient
Writer
Just
Being
Grown
Among adults, we can admit that of course, characters are creations. They aren't real people.
Alain de Botton
People
Characters
Admit
Adult
Course
Real
Real People
Creations
Among
I was an incredibly lonely, very alienated teenager.
Alain de Botton
Lonely
Incredibly
Teenager
Alienated
Very
The best cure for one's bad tendencies is to see them fully developed in someone else.
Alain de Botton
Best
Else
Bad
See
Someone
Tendencies
Developed
Cure
Them
Fully
Advertising is - quite often - alive to our real needs. It's just the products on offer might not be the things that will help us satisfy them.
Alain de Botton
Needs
Will
Our
Alive
Advertising
Real
Offer
Quite
Often
Just
Them
Might
Us
Products
Help
Satisfy
Things
The solution as consumers is - perhaps surprisingly - to take adverts very, very seriously. We should ask ourselves what it is that we find lovely in them - the visions of friendship, togetherness, repose, or whatever. And then consider what would actually help us find these qualities in our lives.
Alain de Botton
Friendship
Seriously
Whatever
Consider
Our
Our Lives
Visions
Ourselves
Would
Solution
Find
Take
Consumers
Perhaps
Qualities
Surprisingly
Very
Repose
Lovely
Them
Ask
Then
Us
Should
Togetherness
Help
Lives
Actually
If you are pro love, you have to be a little bit disloyal to the romantic feelings that propel you in the early days.
Alain de Botton
Love
You
Feelings
Bit
Propel
Days
Pro
Love You
Romantic
Little
Little Bit
Disloyal
Early
Early Days
Some of the reason why we marry the wrong people is that we don't really understand ourselves.
Alain de Botton
People
Ourselves
Marry
Some
Wrong
Understand
Really
Reason
Why
If you're understood in maybe, I don't know, 60% of your soul by your partner, that's fantastic. Don't expect that it's going to be 100%. Of course you will be lonely.
Alain de Botton
You
Soul
Will
Lonely
Partner
Know
Course
Understood
Expect
Going
Maybe
Fantastic
Your
You will often be in despair. You will sometimes think it's the worst decision in your life. That's fine. That's not a sign your marriage has gone wrong. It's a sign that it's normal; it's on track. And many of the hopes that took you into the marriage will have to die in order for the marriage to continue.
Alain de Botton
Life
You
Marriage
Sometimes
Decision
Will
Gone
Think
Despair
Took
Worst
Sign
Hopes
Fine
Wrong
Track
Continue
Normal
Die
Often
Order
Your
Many
I love novels where not much 'happens' but where the interest is in the ideas and analyses of characters.
Alain de Botton
Love
Characters
Ideas
Where
Happens
Interest
Much
Novels
The greatest compliment I get about my writing is when people say, 'How did you know so much about me?' And of course, the answer is very simple: 'I just observed myself without sentimentality.'
Alain de Botton
Myself
Me
You
People
Writing
Simple
Say
Compliment
People Say
About
Observed
Know
Course
Without
Answer
Greatest
How
Very
Get
Did
Just
Much
Sentimentality
Parent and child may both love, but - unbeknown to the child - each party is on a different end of the axis. This is why, in adulthood, when we first long for 'love', what we mean is that we want to 'be loved' as we were once loved by a parent.
Alain de Botton
Love
Long
First
Party
Once
Parent
Both
Adulthood
Were
End
Child
May
Different
Want
Loved
Mean
Each
Why
Axis
I've tried to write about Heathrow before and been escorted off the premises.
Alain de Botton
Before
Tried
About
Write
Been
Off
Premises
Trying to be a sort of intellectual in the public arena is very irritating to people. They think, 'Why is this bugger on television?'
Alain de Botton
People
Think
Television
Arena
Sort
Intellectual
Very
Trying
Irritating
Public
Why
I guess my overall life plan is to think about issues that concern me and try to use culture generally to make sense of them. I'm more worried that I'm going to die before I've had time.
Alain de Botton
Life
Time
Me
Culture
Try
Before
Sense
Think
Guess
Worried
About
More
Generally
Had
Overall
Concern
Make
Issues
Die
Going
Them
Plan
Use
What annoys me about most self-help books is that they have no tragic sense. They have no sense that life is fundamentally incomplete rather than accidentally incomplete.
Alain de Botton
Life
Me
Sense
Incomplete
Books
About
Rather
No Sense
Most
Annoys
Self-Help
Accidentally
Tragic
Than
Fundamentally
To a shameful extent, the charm of marriage boils down to how unpleasant it is to be alone.
Alain de Botton
Alone
Marriage
Down
Unpleasant
Charm
Shameful
How
Boils
Extent
Travel is a lot like love.
Alain de Botton
Love
Travel
Like
Lot
Katie Price is no exception. She, too, is - in a distinctive way - a philosopher. Partially, Katie Price's philosophy is one of extraordinary confidence. She is remarkable not for her looks or antics but because of her tremendous self-assurance and her unwillingness to be intimidated by criticism or failure.
Alain de Botton
Failure
Confidence
Criticism
Too
Extraordinary
Tremendous
Philosopher
Philosophy
Way
Intimidated
Distinctive
No Exception
Exception
Price
Remarkable
She
Looks
Because
Katie
Her
In 'Art as Therapy', we argue that art is a tool that can variously help to inspire, console, redeem, guide, comfort, expand and reawaken us.
Alain de Botton
Art
Inspire
Tool
Guide
Console
Argue
Redeem
Comfort
Expand
Us
Help
Therapy
The idea that one might use art for 'instrumental' reasons tends to set off alarm bells at the heart of the cultural elite, who contend that it's not a pill, that it shouldn't be asked to perform some specific function, especially something as egocentric as to 'cheer you up' or to 'make you a more empathetic person.'
Alain de Botton
Art
You
Heart
Some
Something
More
Tends
Empathetic
Idea
Perform
Cheer
Instrumental
Make
Contend
Pill
Cultural
Off
Up
Person
Egocentric
Might
Asked
Use
Who
Reasons
Function
Specific
Alarm
Bells
Elite
Set
Politicians want people to be nice neighbours, but the tools at their disposal are just the tools of modern liberal society, which are nothing.
Alain de Botton
People
Be Nice
Politicians
Nothing
Nice
Society
Liberal
Tools
Neighbours
Modern
Just
Want
Which
Disposal
One of the most welcome aspects of office work is that you do not need to be fully yourself.
Alain de Botton
Work
You
Welcome
Yourself
Most
Office
Aspects
Fully
Need
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