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In my mum's day, you needed to be beautiful for a very short time to catch your man. It didn't start at six and go on until you're 75, right?
Susie Orbach
Beautiful
Time
Day
You
Man
Catch
Until
Go
Very
Six
Short
Short Time
Your
Mum
Right
Start
Needed
I'm a therapist and that fascinates people because they think I carry secrets.
Susie Orbach
People
Think
Secrets
Carry
Because
Therapist
Fascinates
In general, the Western body has become a global brand.
Susie Orbach
Become
General
Global
Western
Brand
Body
When I was growing up, one or two girls were beautiful, but it was not an aspiration, right?
Susie Orbach
Beautiful
Girl
One Or Two
Were
Up
Aspiration
Growing
Growing Up
Right
Two
I think it is one of the capacities of human beings, to create style.
Susie Orbach
Style
Think
Human
Human Beings
Capacities
Create
Beings
Our idea of a healthy body is so destabilised that insecure people have come to bolster their own bodies by deeming others - those with fat bodies - less worthy, less capable and less employable.
Susie Orbach
People
Healthy
Own
Others
Our
Those
Insecure
Worthy
Idea
Come
Capable
Bodies
Body
Less
Bolster
Fat
Not that it was Twiggy's fault, but the ubiquity of her image created a sense in young women that to be stylish meant to be skinny, flat-chested with an ingenue face and straight hair.
Susie Orbach
Women
Fault
Face
Hair
Young
Sense
Stylish
Straight
Young Women
Ingenue
Created
Meant
Meant To Be
Skinny
Her
Image
Dare to be as physically robust and varied as you always were.
Susie Orbach
You
Dare
Varied
Physically
Robust
Always
Were
Beauty has been democratised. No longer the preserve of movie stars and models but available to all. But while the invitation to beauty is welcomed, it has become not so much an option as an imperative.
Susie Orbach
Beauty
Become
Stars
Has-Been
Imperative
Invitation
Longer
Welcomed
Been
Option
Models
Movie
While
Movie Stars
Available
Much
Preserve
A wanted pregnancy as much as a dreaded pregnancy can play differently than all one's previous imaginings.
Susie Orbach
Dreaded
Previous
Than
Wanted
Pregnancy
Much
Play
Differently
Imagining
Being able to provoke a different point of view to the standard current ideological or political perspective as played out in conventional newspaper or radio reportage is what a public intellectual does. But it's not merely about being oppositional, because that's too negative.
Susie Orbach
Political
Perspective
Negative
Too
Out
Able
About
Point
Point Of View
Merely
Ideological
Because
Does
Intellectual
Provoke
Current
Being
Different
Conventional
Public
Newspaper
View
Standard
Radio
Played
I decided to write 'True Refuge' during a major dive in my own health. Diagnosed with a genetic disease that affected my mobility, I faced tremendous fear and grief about losing the fitness and physical freedom I loved.
Tara Brach
Fitness
Health
Freedom
Grief
Fear
Losing
Own
Tremendous
Physical
About
Dive
Faced
My Own
Write
True
Genetic
Major
Diagnosed
Affected
Mobility
Disease
Refuge
Loved
Decided
My first book, 'Radical Acceptance', grew out of the suffering of feeling personally deficient and unworthy. Because most of us are so quick to turn against ourselves, the teachings and practices of radical acceptance continue as a strong current in 'True Refuge': nurturing a forgiving, understanding heart is a basic step on the path.
Tara Brach
Heart
Suffering
Acceptance
Book
Strong
Path
Nurturing
First
Feeling
Understanding
Radical
Deficient
Ourselves
Out
Step
True
Most
Because
Practices
Unworthy
Continue
Quick
Current
Refuge
Forgiving
Grew
Against
Personally
Turn
Us
Teachings
Basic
If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
Tara Brach
World
Beauty
Our
Our World
Touched
Poetry
Mystery
Ready
Hearts
Anything
Fill
Buddhist practices offer a way of saying, 'Hey, come back over here, reconnect.' The only way that you'll actually wake up and have some freedom is if you have the capacity and courage to stay with the vulnerability and the discomfort.
Tara Brach
Saying
Freedom
You
Courage
Wake Up
Back
Way
Hey
Stay
Reconnect
Some
Only
Buddhist
Over
Come
Vulnerability
Practices
Discomfort
Wake
Up
Offer
Capacity
Actually
Here
When I was first introduced to Buddhism in a high school World Studies class, I dismissed it out of hand. This was during the hedonistic days of the late '60s, and this spiritual path seemed so grim with its concern about attachment and, apparently, anti-pleasure.
Tara Brach
Spiritual
Class
World
School
Path
First
Late
Out
High
Introduced
High School
About
Seemed
Spiritual Path
Attachment
Studies
Buddhism
Days
Concern
Hand
Hedonistic
Grim
Dismissed
Apparently
There is so much division in this world. So what is really the path of healing? It can begin in this moment, by embracing the life that's here.
Tara Brach
Life
Healing
World
Path
Embracing
Division
Begin
Much
Really
Moment
Here
I would say both Western psychology and Eastern paths would recognize that we get caught up in feeling like a separate self and an unworthy self.
Tara Brach
Feeling
Say
Recognize
Eastern
Would
Both
Self
Like
Caught
Unworthy
Western
Up
Get
Paths
Psychology
Separate
Quite simply, if you're feeling anxious, angry, a sense of shame, whatever it is, breathe in and agree to touch or feel it. Breathing out, offer space and care to whatever's there. If there's blocking to touching it, emphasize the in-breath and stay embodied.
Tara Brach
Angry
You
Space
Care
Feeling
Whatever
Sense
Out
Embodied
Stay
Touch
Touching
Shame
Simply
Emphasize
Feel
Blocking
Offer
Anxious
Quite
Breathe
Breathing
Agree
We are mindful of desire when we experience it with an embodied awareness, recognizing the sensations and thoughts of wanting as arising and passing phenomena. While this isn't easy, as we cultivate the clear seeing and compassion of Radical Acceptance, we discover we can open fully to this natural force, and remain free in its midst.
Tara Brach
Thoughts
Acceptance
Experience
Natural
Compassion
Free
Radical
Awareness
Mindful
Recognizing
Embodied
Easy
Seeing
Remain
Open
Arising
Clear
Force
Passing
Cultivate
Discover
Sensations
Wanting
While
Midst
Fully
Phenomena
Desire
Love is an attempt to change a piece of a dream world into reality.
Theodor Reik
Love
Change
Love Is
Reality
World
Dream
Dream World
Attempt
Piece
Nothing said to us, nothing we can learn from others, reaches us so deep as that which we find in ourselves.
Theodor Reik
Nothing
Others
Ourselves
Find
Learn
Said
Which
Us
Deep
The lover is a monotheist who knows that other people worship different gods but cannot himself imagine that there could be other gods.
Theodor Reik
People
Lover
Other
Worship
Could
Himself
Knows
Gods
Different
Cannot
Who
Imagine
Women in general want to be loved for what they are and men for what they accomplish.
Theodor Reik
Women
Men
General
Accomplish
Want
Loved
Narcissist: psychoanalytic term for the person who loves himself more than his analyst; considered to be the manifestation of a dire mental disease whose successful treatment depends on the patient learning to love the analyst more and himself less.
Thomas Szasz
Love
Learning
Patient
Analyst
Considered
Dire
Mental
More
Term
Himself
Narcissist
His
Than
Person
Disease
Depends
Psychoanalytic
Manifestation
Loves
To Love
Successful
Less
Who
Whose
Treatment
He who does not accept and respect those who want to reject life does not truly accept and respect life itself.
Thomas Szasz
Life
Respect
Those
He
Accept
Does
Truly
Itself
Want
Who
Reject
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