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Glennon Doyle Melton Quotes
Glennon Doyle Melton Quotes
Glennon Doyle Melton
American
Author
Born:
Mar 20
,
1976
Life
Love
Me
People
World
You
Related authors:
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
Henry David Thoreau
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Zig Ziglar
If no pain, then no love. If no darkness, no light. If no risk, then no reward. It's all or nothing. In this damn world, it's all or nothing.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Love
World
Darkness
Light
Reward
Nothing
Pain
Damn
No Love
Risk
Then
When people express opinions that differ from yours, take it as a chance to grow. Seek to understand over being understood. Be curious, not defensive. The only way to disarm another human being is by listening.
Glennon Doyle Melton
People
Human Being
Listening
Defensive
Way
Seek
Only
Take
Over
Disarm
Another
Understand
Opinions
Understood
Curious
Human
Differ
Being
Yours
Express
Grow
Chance
You can be shattered, and then you can put yourself back together piece by piece. But what can happen over time is this: You wake up one day and realize that you have put yourself back together completely differently. That you are whole, finally, and strong - but you are now a different shape, a different size.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Time
Day
You
Together
Yourself
Strong
Wake Up
Back
Finally
One Day
Shape
Put
Over
Piece
Shattered
Wake
Up
Different
Size
Happen
Realize
Then
Whole
Now
Differently
I think of love and marriage in the same way I do plants: We have perennials and annuals. The perennial plant blooms, goes away, and comes back. The annual blooms for just a season, and then winter arrives and takes it out for good. But it's still enriched the soil for the next flower to bloom. In the same way, no love is wasted.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Love
Good
Winter
Marriage
Love Is
Plant
Plants
Soil
Think
Flower
Back
Enriched
Way
Out
No Love
Perennial
Takes
Annual
Still
Bloom
Blooms
Same
Goes
Just
Then
Next
Season
Away
Wasted
Compassion does not just happen. Pity does, but compassion is not pity. It's not a feeling. Compassion is a viewpoint, a way of life, a perspective, a habit that becomes a discipline - and more than anything else, compassion is a choice we make that love is more important than comfort or convenience.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Life
Love
Love Is
Discipline
Perspective
Compassion
Feeling
Important
Else
Way
More
More Than Anything
Habit
Make
Comfort
Becomes
Does
Than
Just
Convenience
Happen
Pity
Anything
Anything Else
Choice
Viewpoint
We need to make friends with ourselves. We are stuck with our self all day, so let's be kinder, gentler, more amusing company. Let's take our own hand and say, 'There, there, sister. You're doing a good job. I'm proud of how you're handling all this craziness down here. Don't give up. Carry on, warrior.'
Glennon Doyle Melton
Good
Day
You
Good Job
Job
Sister
Own
Down
Warrior
Our
Say
All Day
Ourselves
Carry
Kinder
Give
More
Stuck
Take
Self
Make
Proud
How
Doing
Hand
Up
Friends
Handling
Craziness
Company
Here
Need
Amusing
We all have this misunderstanding about heartbreak, which is we think we should avoid it. But what I think is that heartache is a clue toward the work we're supposed to be doing in the world. What breaks each person's heart is different - be it racial injustice, war, or animals. And when you figure out what it is that breaks yours, go toward it.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Work
War
You
Injustice
Heart
World
Animals
Think
Out
About
Toward
Supposed
Misunderstanding
Doing
Go
Heartache
Heartbreak
Person
Different
Which
Breaks
Clue
Racial
Should
Avoid
Figure
Yours
Each
I don't think that I'm broken at all. I no longer think that I'm a mess. I just think I'm a deeply feeling person in a messy world.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Broken
World
Feeling
Think
Longer
Mess
Messy
Person
Just
Deeply
Over time, I have come to believe that 'brave' does not mean what we think it does. It does not mean 'being afraid and doing it anyway.' Nope. Brave means listening to the still small voice inside and doing as it says. Regardless of what the rest of the world is saying.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Saying
Time
World
Listening
Rest
Believe
Think
Says
Inside
Small
Voice
Small Voice
Over
Come
Does
Still
Doing
Brave
Afraid
Being
Being Afraid
Regardless
Anyway
Mean
Means
Habits are learned. And children learn their habits by watching what we do, not by listening to what we say. So we have to stop talking and teaching and preaching and just go do.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Listening
Preaching
Say
Habits
Learn
Learned
Talking
Go
Just
Stop
Children
Teaching
Watching
I am not, at the end of the day, a mother, a wife, a writer, an activist, a friend. I am a child of God. That's who I was when I came into this world and who I'll be when I leave it. No one can take that from me.
Glennon Doyle Melton
God
Day
Me
World
Mother
End Of The Day
Wife
Writer
Take
No-One
Am
Leave
Came
Friend
End
Child
Who
Activist
Parenting is the most important thing to many of us, and so it's also the place we're most vulnerable. We're all a little afraid we're doing it wrong.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Parenting
Important
Wrong
Most
Also
Most Important Thing
Vulnerable
Important Thing
Doing
Afraid
The Most Important
Place
Little
Us
Many
Thing
If you're not okay, you might as well not pretend you are, especially since life has a way of holding us down until we utter that magic word: help! That's when angels rush to your side.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Life
You
Word
Holding
Down
Side
Way
Okay
Pretend
Rush
Magic
Angels
Since
Until
Well
Might
Us
Your
Help
Utter
Life is not safe, and so our task is not to promise our kids there will be no turbulence. It's to assure them that when the turbulence comes, we will all hold hands and get through it together.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Life
Together
Will
Assure
Our
Kids
Promise
Through
Safe
Task
Get
Hands
Hold
Turbulence
Them
Rock bottom is a crisis... and everyone wants to avoid crisis. But what 'crisis' means literally is 'to sift' - like a child who goes to the beach, lifts up the sand, and watches all the sand fall away, hoping that there's treasure left over. That's what crisis does.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Fall
Everyone
Sift
Crisis
Hoping
Beach
Bottom
Lifts
Over
Like
Does
Rock
Left
Up
Child
Goes
Literally
Wants
Sand
Means
Avoid
Who
Away
Treasure
Watches
Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Suffering
Try
Mandatory
Pain
Over
Optional
Happens
Us
Teaches
Skip
I am not bound to spend my precious days on Earth trying to keep up with the Joneses - because the Joneses are really just a bunch of folks in conference rooms changing 'trends' rapidly to create fake monthly emergencies for us.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Changing
Spend
Trends
Earth
Monthly
Rapidly
Folks
Emergencies
Bound
Days
Because
Fake
Am
Up
Bunch
Precious
Conference
Trying
Just
Rooms
Us
Create
Really
Keep
It is suggested to us a million times a day that our bodies are projects. They aren't. Our lives are. Our spirituality is. Our relationships are. Our work is.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Work
Day
Spirituality
Relationships
Our
Our Lives
Projects
Times
Us
Bodies
Lives
Million
Million Times
Suggested
The truth is that cleaning up socks and trying to get someone to really listen to you is marriage. It's less sweep you off your feet and more sweep the kitchen four times a day. Like everything good in life, it's 98% back-breaking work and 2% moments that make the work worthwhile.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Life
Work
Truth
Good
Day
You
Cleaning
Marriage
Truth Is
Everything
Worthwhile
Someone
More
Kitchen
Feet
Like
Make
Off
Up
Times
Get
Trying
Listen
Really
Sweep
Your
Less
Moments
Four
Socks
Do not measure your marriage by how much love you feel today: measure it by how much love you've offered today.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Love
Today
You
Marriage
Feel
How
How Much
Offered
Love You
Much
Your
Measure
We are - each and every one of us - unlearning misogyny. It's going to take some time. But be aware and active of your prejudices. Notice when they kick in and resist. Fight to stay soft and open. Step back and squint hard.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Time
Fight
Active
Every
Back
Kick
Stay
Some
Take
Open
Step
Going
Us
Notice
Prejudices
Your
Hard
Each
Aware
Resist
Soft
The Internet has become my enabler. It keeps me from stillness and discomfort, and this keeps me from growing.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Me
Stillness
Internet
Become
Discomfort
Growing
Keeps
When in doubt, I choose love above any particular ideas offered to me about faith.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Love
Faith
Me
Doubt
About
Above
Particular
Ideas
Offered
Any
When In Doubt
Choose
Choose Love
I think that in order to parent effectively, we are going to have to admit two things: We can't keep our children safe. We can't accept the fact that we can't keep our children safe.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Think
Our
Admit
Parent
Fact
Safe
Accept
Effectively
Going
Children
Order
Keep
Things
Two
A safe life includes following your dreams with the full knowledge that doing so is not, in any way, shape or form, safe in the traditional meaning of the word. Because living safely means dying without too many regrets. That is safe.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Life
Dreams
Knowledge
Word
Living
Too
Way
Following
Shape
Safe
Safely
Because
Without
Doing
Traditional
Any
Form
Dying
Meaning
Meaning Of
Regrets
Means
Your
Full
Your Dreams
Many
We'd better not speak against misogyny if, in the same breath, we're not also speaking against transphobia and homophobia and racism and classism and poverty. This is one fight. It always has been.
Glennon Doyle Melton
Fight
Racism
Speak
Better
Poverty
Breath
Has-Been
Also
Always
Been
Same
Against
Speaking
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