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Barbara Deming Quotes
Barbara Deming
American
Author
Born:
1917
Died:
1984
Action
Change
Life
People
Revolution
Think
Related authors:
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Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people's minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
Barbara Deming
Change
People
Enemy
Victory
Thought
Trouble
Minds
Punishing
Point
Vengeance
Most
Coincide
Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
Barbara Deming
Change
Anger
Determination
Affliction
Revolution
Think
Our
Definition
About
Give
Fact
Could
Course
Task
In Fact
Bring
Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
Barbara Deming
Punishment
Spirits
Only
Heal
Break
Cannot
Them
After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist - if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
Barbara Deming
Hope
Women
Men
Men And Women
Revolution
Every
Would
Could
Simply
Bound
Name
Prisons
Exist
Goes
Experienced
After
Place
Places
Mean
Them
Us
Let Us
Now
All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
Barbara Deming
People
Human Being
Society
Our
Date
Put
Prisons
Existed
Human
Being
Should
Away
Ever
I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision... is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
Barbara Deming
Vision
Behavior
Enemies
Will
Think
Our
Abandon
Adopt
Only
Naming
Concept
Enable
Nonviolent
Tradition
Oppressive
Familiar
Hold
Us
Choice
People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
Barbara Deming
People
Others
Those
Attack
Undermine
Doing
Who
Need
The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
Barbara Deming
Love
Our
Neighbors
Ourselves
Equally
Us
Should
Means
Injunction
The point is to change one's life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
Barbara Deming
Life
Change
Emotions
Master
Destroying
Some
Give
Point
Vent
Been
Them
Act
Now
We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other - in balance with it... The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
Barbara Deming
Respect
Balance
Power
Believe
Other
Our
Unless
One Act
Out
Would
Fact
Name
Force
Dual
Matched
Source
Precisely
In Fact
Little
Act
Acting
Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
Barbara Deming
Be Nice
Action
Nice
Others
Consult
Force
Does
Nonviolent
Effect
Get
Them
To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek. The most effective action both resorts to power and engages conscience.
Barbara Deming
Speak
Power
Action
Meek
Resort
Both
Most
Effective
Conscience
Violent
Need
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