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People tend to think of psychopaths as criminals. In fact, the majority of psychopaths aren't criminal.
Robert D. Hare
People
Think
Criminal
Criminals
Fact
Tend
Majority
In Fact
A troubled marriage can be as hazardous to physical health as cigarette smoking.
Robert J. Waldinger
Health
Marriage
Smoking
Cigarette
Physical
Physical Health
Troubled
Hazardous
Being human means there's a wall-builder in each of us. Our minds naturally divide the world into me and not-me, us and them. For thousands of years, our sages have taught that we're all one, yet we still divide wherever we look.
Robert J. Waldinger
Me
World
Our
Minds
Thousands
Thousands Of Years
Divide
Look
Still
Years
Human
Taught
Being
Wherever
Being Human
Them
Us
Means
Naturally
Each
More than half of the complaints that patients bring to their doctors are emotional in origin. Most often, they include troubled or absent connections with loved ones.
Robert J. Waldinger
Half
Doctors
Complaints
More
Absent
Troubled
Emotional
Most
Than
Often
Patients
Loved
Loved Ones
Origin
Connections
Include
Bring
Pictures of entire lives, of the choices that people make and how those choices work out for them, those pictures are almost impossible to get.
Robert J. Waldinger
Work
People
Impossible
Those
Out
Entire
Entire Lives
Almost
Pictures
Make
How
Get
Them
Work Out
Choices
Lives
Most of what we know about human life we know from asking people to remember the past, and as we know, hindsight is anything but 20/20. We forget vast amounts of what happens to us in life, and sometimes memory is downright creative.
Robert J. Waldinger
Life
Creative
Memory
People
Sometimes
Remember
Past
About
Vast
Know
Most
Hindsight
Forget
Human
Anything
Happens
Us
Asking
Human Life
Downright
Amount
It's the quality of your relationships that matters.
Robert J. Waldinger
Quality
Matters
Relationships
Your
Our kind of research might be one of the first projects to go. Our work is not urgent; it's not the cure for cancer or Alzheimer's. But we have a way of understanding human life that you can't get anywhere else, and it lays the foundation for important, actionable things.
Robert J. Waldinger
Life
Work
You
Cancer
First
Important
Understanding
Research
Else
Our
Way
Projects
Kind
Lays
Alzheimer
Go
Cure
Get
Human
Anywhere
Anywhere Else
Urgent
Might
Human Life
Actionable
Foundation
Things
Insurance companies, government agencies, and the pharmaceutical industry all push for mental health care that is brief, intermittent, and focused on quick fixes, despite the fact that many people struggle with emotional difficulties that can only be addressed over time using special psychodynamic skills.
Robert J. Waldinger
Government
Time
Health
Struggle
People
Mental Health
Care
Difficulties
Despite
Focused
Mental
Only
Fact
Emotional
Push
Over
Industry
Health Care
Insurance
Insurance Companies
Government Agencies
Quick
Agencies
Skills
Special
Companies
Many
Using
Brief
Pharmaceutical
Pharmaceutical Industry
Far from the stereotype that psychodynamic treatments are appropriate only for the 'worried well,' a growing body of evidence points to their efficacy in dealing with the most pressing mental health problems of our time.
Robert J. Waldinger
Time
Health
Mental Health
Problems
Our
Worried
Appropriate
Evidence
Our Time
Pressing
Mental
Only
Points
Stereotype
Most
Well
Health Problems
Dealing
Efficacy
Far
Body
Growing
Treatments
Once you've taken account of the quality of sibling relationships, knowing about the quality of parenting doesn't add much information.
Robert J. Waldinger
Parenting
You
Quality
Add
Relationships
Once
About
Taken
Knowing
Account
Information
Much
Sibling
It's not just the number of friends you have, and it's not whether or not you're in a committed relationship. It's the quality of your close relationships that matters.
Robert J. Waldinger
Relationship
You
Quality
Matters
Relationships
Friends
Close
Committed
Just
Whether
Your
Number
But when I went to Hiroshima and began to study or just listen to people's descriptions of their work, it was quite clear they were talking about death all the time, about people dying all around them, about their own fear of death.
Robert Jay Lifton
Work
Death
Time
People
Fear
Own
All-Around
About
Clear
Study
Talking
Around
Were
Hiroshima
Began
Listen
Quite
Just
Dying
Them
Descriptions
But I spent just two calendar years at Cornell University, though it was covering more than three years of work, and then went to medical school and did become interested in psychiatry, and even helped form a kind of psychiatry club in medical school.
Robert Jay Lifton
Work
School
Three
Become
Club
Spent
Though
Kind
More
Calendar
Years
Covering
Than
Did
Just
Psychiatry
Form
Interested
Then
Helped
Even
Medical
Medical School
Two
University
Sometimes it's said that psychiatrists are doctors who are frightened by the sight of blood. I might have fallen into that category.
Robert Jay Lifton
Sometimes
Doctors
Sight
Category
Said
Fallen
Blood
Frightened
Psychiatrists
Might
Who
And I managed to arrange to get some research support and to stay in Hong Kong for another year and a half, interviewing people coming out of China, both Westerners and Chinese. And that was my first real research study on thought reform or so-called brainwashing.
Robert Jay Lifton
People
Thought
First
Half
Year
Research
Hong Kong
Interviewing
Out
Stay
Some
Both
Support
Study
Another
Arrange
Kong
Real
Coming
Reform
Get
So-Called
China
Chinese
It may sound terrible, but I often say that the military saved me from a conventional life in the United States and I've never really thanked them for it, because I haven't exactly been pro-military in my work.
Robert Jay Lifton
Life
Work
Me
Military
Saved
Say
States
Exactly
Never
Terrible
Because
Sound
Been
May
Often
Conventional
Them
Really
United
United States
I did the first study because I had been exposed to something that I took to be important and interesting - this thought reform process - in the military.
Robert Jay Lifton
Thought
First
Important
Military
Took
Something
Had
Study
Because
Been
Reform
Did
Process
Interesting
Exposed
And I thought about the psychic numbing involved in strategic projections of using hydrogen bombs or nuclear weapons of any kind. And I also thought about ways in which all of us undergo what could be called the numbing of everyday life.
Robert Jay Lifton
Life
Psychic
Everyday Life
Thought
Everyday
Ways
Kind
Weapons
About
Hydrogen
Could
Involved
Undergo
Also
Any
Which
Us
Strategic
Using
Nuclear
Bombs
Nuclear Weapons
Numbing
That is, we are bombarded by all kinds of images and influences and we have to fend some of them off if we're to take in any of them, or to carry through just our ordinary day's work, or really deepen whatever we have to do or say.
Robert Jay Lifton
Work
Day
Whatever
Our
Say
Carry
Kinds
Some
Through
Take
Off
Any
Just
Influences
Ordinary
Them
Really
Deepen
Bombarded
Images
Every adult in the world has some sense that he or she might be obliterated at any time by these weapons that we have created.
Robert Jay Lifton
Time
World
Sense
Every
Weapons
Some
Adult
He
He Or She
She
Any
Might
Created
Yes, I've been very preoccupied with the survivor all through my work.
Robert Jay Lifton
Work
Through
Been
Yes
Very
Survivor
Preoccupied
I struggled with each of these studies and I was uncertain about what they meant, and often confused, and then I tried to put together what I was seeing.
Robert Jay Lifton
Together
Confused
Tried
Seeing
About
Uncertain
Struggled
Studies
Put
Often
Then
Meant
Each
One reason that I embarked on a study of Nazi doctors was that in this personal journey, I had the feeling increasingly that I did want to do a Holocaust study and that increasingly I wanted it to be of perpetrators, which I thought was more needed.
Robert Jay Lifton
Journey
Thought
Feeling
Doctors
Increasingly
Embarked
More
Had
Study
Did
Personal
Want
Wanted
Which
Holocaust
Reason
Needed
If she has a good, strong, reliable father image, which is hard to find these days, that will be her image of men, probably for the rest of her life. She'll look for a husband who embodies those qualities.
Robert Johnson
Life
Good
Strong
Father
Will
Rest
Men
Husband
Those
Reliable
Embodies
Find
Days
Look
Qualities
She
Which
Hard
Who
Her
Image
History has always been a series of pendulum swings, but the individual doesn't have to get caught in that.
Robert Johnson
History
Pendulum
Individual
Always
Caught
Been
Get
Series
Swings
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