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I think I've got the best staff in television.
Phil McGraw
Best
Think
Television
Got
Staff
Now, my body fat runs around 18 percent, which is normal and, you know, kind of in the middle of normal, actually.
Phil McGraw
You
Kind
Runs
Percent
Know
Around
Normal
Middle
Which
Body
Body Fat
Now
Actually
Fat
Food is a coping mechanism; people are afraid of giving it up because then they'll feel confused and lost.
Phil McGraw
Food
People
Confused
Giving
Lost
Feel
Because
Up
Afraid
Then
Mechanism
Coping
That human behavior is more influenced by things outside of us than inside. The 'situation' is the external environment. The inner environment is genes, moral history, religious training.
Philip Zimbardo
History
Training
Behavior
Situation
Moral
Religious
Inside
More
Outside
Environment
Genes
Than
Human
Human Behavior
Influenced
Us
Things
Inner
External
The Stanford prison experiment came out of class exercises in which I encouraged students to understand the dynamics of prison life.
Philip Zimbardo
Life
Class
Prison
Experiment
Out
Students
Exercises
Understand
Came
Encouraged
Dynamics
Which
Stanford
I was discriminated against because I was Jewish, Italian, black and Puerto Rican. But maybe the worst prejudice I experienced was against the poor. I grew up on welfare and often had to move in the middle of the night because we couldn't pay the rent.
Philip Zimbardo
Welfare
Black
Pay
Worst
Had
Because
Rent
Italian
Up
Discriminated
Often
Move
Maybe
Middle
Experienced
Grew
Against
Rican
Poor
Prejudice
Puerto
Puerto Rican
Night
Jewish
My early childhood prepared me to be a social psychologist. I grew up in a South Bronx ghetto in a very poor family. From Sicilian origin, I was the first person in my family to complete high school, let alone go to college.
Philip Zimbardo
Alone
Family
Me
School
College
First
Complete
Ghetto
High
Bronx
High School
First-Person
Go
South
South Bronx
Up
Very
Person
Childhood
Grew
Psychologist
Social
Poor
Origin
Prepared
Early
Early Childhood
Sicilian
One can't live mindfully without being enmeshed in psychological processes that are around us.
Philip Zimbardo
Live
Around
Without
Being
Psychological
Processes
Us
There are times when external circumstances can overwhelm us, and we do things we never thought. If you're not aware that this can happen, you can be seduced by evil. We need inoculations against our own potential for evil. We have to acknowledge it. Then we can change it.
Philip Zimbardo
You
Change
Evil
Thought
Own
Our
Circumstances
Seduced
Potential
Never
Times
Overwhelm
Happen
Acknowledge
Against
Then
Us
Aware
Things
External
Need
At North Hollywood High School, I was shunned by everyone. I would sit down in the cafeteria, and students would get up from the table and walk away. They thought I was from the Mafia.
Philip Zimbardo
School
Walk
Thought
Sit
Down
Everyone
High
Would
Table
Mafia
High School
Students
Up
North
Get
Hollywood
Away
Shunned
Careers in virtually all academic disciplines are fostered by being a superstar who knows more about one subject than anyone else in the world.
Philip Zimbardo
World
Else
Virtually
About
More
Superstar
Academic
Knows
Disciplines
Subject
Than
Being
Anyone
Anyone Else
Who
Fostered
Careers
The level of shyness has gone up dramatically in the last decade. I think shyness is an index of social pathology rather than a pathology of the individual.
Philip Zimbardo
Gone
Think
Dramatically
Rather
Individual
Up
Than
Decade
Pathology
Social
Level
Last
Last Decade
Shyness
Bullies are often people who are shy and can't make friends easily, so, as the theme of the movie 'A Bronx Tale' tells us, it is better to be feared if you can't be loved.
Philip Zimbardo
You
People
Better
Easily
Bronx
Tells
Feared
Tale
Make
Bullies
Friends
Often
Movie
Loved
Theme
Us
Who
Shy
Freud was a hero. He descended to the Underworld and met there stark terrors. He carried with him his theory as a Medusa's head which turned these terrors to stone.
R. D. Laing
Hero
Met
Carried
He
Head
Him
Terrors
Freud
His
Underworld
Stone
Which
Turned
Theory
Descended
Stark
If I go into the place in myself that is love, and you go into the place in yourself that is love, we are together in love. Then you and I are truly in love, the state of being love. That's the entrance to Oneness. That's the space I entered when I met my guru.
Ram Dass
Love
Myself
You
Together
Yourself
Space
Met
State
Entered
Guru
Oneness
Entrance
Go
Truly
Being
Place
Then
Maharaj-ji, in my first darshan, my first meeting with him, showed me his powers. At that point I was impressed with the power. But subsequently, I realized that it was really his love that pulled me in. His love is unconditional love.
Ram Dass
Love
Me
Love Is
Power
First
Meeting
Point
Unconditional
Unconditional Love
Powers
Him
His
Impressed
Subsequently
Realized
Really
Pulled
I remember my first visit with my guru. He had shown that he read my mind. So I looked at the grass and I thought, 'My god, he's going to know all the things I don't want people to know.' I was really embarrassed. Then I looked up and he was looking directly at me with unconditional love.
Ram Dass
Love
God
Me
People
Remember
Mind
Thought
First
Looking
Grass
Visit
Embarrassed
Guru
Directly
Unconditional
Unconditional Love
Had
He
Know
Looked
Read
Up
Going
Want
Then
Really
Shown
Things
The universe is an example of love. Like a tree. Like the ocean. Like my body. Like my wheelchair. I see the love.
Ram Dass
Love
Example
Ocean
Universe
Tree
See
Like
Wheelchair
Body
The stroke has given me another way to serve people. It lets me feel more deeply the pain of others; to help them know by example that ultimately, whatever happens, no harm can come. 'Death is perfectly safe,' I like to say.
Ram Dass
Death
Me
People
Example
Whatever
Pain
Others
Way
Say
Stroke
Given
More
Perfectly
Feel
Come
Like
Know
Safe
Another
Another Way
Ultimately
Happens
Them
Help
Lets
Serve
Deeply
Harm
When I look at my life, I see that I wanted to be free of the physical plane, the psychological plane, and when I got free of those I didn't want to go anywhere near them.
Ram Dass
Life
Free
My Life
Those
Physical
See
Look
Got
Go
Want
Wanted
Psychological
Anywhere
Them
Plane
Near
I feel vulnerable because my mind - because of the stroke, my mind doesn't focus. And then I feel vulnerable because I don't understand the world around me.
Ram Dass
Me
World
Mind
Focus
Stroke
Feel
Because
Vulnerable
Around
Understand
Then
Language and words for psychopaths are only word deep; there is no emotional colouring behind it. A psychopath can use a word like, 'I love you' but it means nothing more to him than if he said, 'I'll have a cup of coffee.'
Robert D. Hare
Love
You
Words
Word
Language
Coffee
Nothing
More
Only
Emotional
He
Like
Him
Said
Cup
Than
Behind
Love You
Means
Use
Deep
Psychopaths view any social exchange as a 'feeding opportunity,' a contest or a test of wills in which there can be only one winner. Their motives are to manipulate and take, ruthlessly and without remorse.
Robert D. Hare
Opportunity
Winner
Wills
Only
Take
Exchange
Feeding
Remorse
Without
Contest
Test
Motives
Any
Which
Manipulate
Social
View
Measurement and categorization are, of course, fundamental to any scientific endeavor, but the implications of being able to identify psychopaths are as much practical as academic. To put it simply, if we can't spot them, we are doomed to be their victims, both as individuals and as a society.
Robert D. Hare
Measurement
Endeavor
Society
Able
Both
Put
Simply
Individuals
Implications
Academic
Identify
Practical
Course
Spot
Scientific
Any
Being
Doomed
Victims
Them
Much
Fundamental
Many psychopaths describe the traditional treatment programmes as finishing schools where they hone their skills. Where they find out that there are lots of techniques they had not thought about before.
Robert D. Hare
Thought
Before
Programmes
Out
Find
About
Finishing
Had
Schools
Traditional
Lots
Where
Skills
Many
Describe
Techniques
Hone
Treatment
Not all psychopaths are in prison - some are in the boardroom.
Robert D. Hare
Prison
Some
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