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Henri Nouwen
Dutch
Clergyman
Born:
Jan 24
,
1932
Died:
Sep 21
,
1996
Fear
God
Life
Love
People
You
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Did I offer peace today? Did I bring a smile to someone's face? Did I say words of healing? Did I let go of my anger and resentment? Did I forgive? Did I love? These are the real questions. I must trust that the little bit of love that I sow now will bear many fruits, here in this world and the life to come.
Henri Nouwen
Positive
Life
Love
Today
Smile
Anger
Peace
Trust
Healing
Words
World
Will
Face
Say
Bit
Must
Someone
Bear
Come
Real
Go
Questions
Offer
Did
Forgive
Sow
Fruits
Little
Little Bit
Many
Resentment
Let Go
Now
Bring
Here
The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing... not healing, not curing... that is a friend who cares.
Henri Nouwen
Friendship
Grief
Healing
Confusion
Not Knowing
Despair
Cares
Bereavement
Stay
Silent
Hour
Knowing
Friend
Curing
Us
Moment
Who
Tolerate
Who Cares
Each day holds a surprise. But only if we expect it can we see, hear, or feel it when it comes to us. Let's not be afraid to receive each day's surprise, whether it comes to us as sorrow or as joy It will open a new place in our hearts, a place where we can welcome new friends and celebrate more fully our shared humanity.
Henri Nouwen
Day
Welcome
Celebrate
Humanity
Joy
Will
Our
See
More
Only
Open
Shared
Feel
New
Sorrow
New Friends
Surprise
Hear
New Place
Friends
Expect
Hearts
Afraid
Where
Holds
Whether
Place
Us
Fully
Each
Each Day
Receive
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.
Henri Nouwen
Friendship
Giving
Advice
Pain
Honestly
Our
Our Lives
Those
Ourselves
Solutions
Find
Wounds
Touch
Rather
Tender
Share
Instead
Most
Hand
Cures
Person
Often
Which
Warm
Ask
Us
Means
Who
Chosen
Lives
If fear is the great enemy of intimacy, love is its true friend.
Henri Nouwen
Love
Great
True Friend
Love Is
Enemy
Fear
Intimacy
Great Enemy
True
Friend
One of the main tasks of theology is to find words that do not divide but unite, that do not create conflict but unity, that do not hurt but heal.
Henri Nouwen
Hurt
Conflict
Words
Unity
Find
Divide
Main
Heal
Tasks
Create
Theology
Unite
Perhaps nothing helps us make the movement from our little selves to a larger world than remembering God in gratitude. Such a perspective puts God in view in all of life, not just in the moments we set aside for worship or spiritual disciplines. Not just in the moments when life seems easy.
Henri Nouwen
Life
God
Spiritual
Gratitude
World
Perspective
Nothing
Our
Worship
Easy
Seems
Remembering
Puts
Perhaps
Make
Disciplines
Selves
Than
Just
Movement
Little
Aside
Us
View
Moments
Helps
Larger
Set
Spiritual identity means we are not what we do or what people say about us. And we are not what we have. We are the beloved daughters and sons of God.
Henri Nouwen
God
Spiritual
People
Say
People Say
About
Daughters
Sons
Identity
Us
Means
Beloved
Solitude is very different from a 'time-out' from our busy lives. Solitude is the very ground from which community grows. Whenever we pray alone, study, read, write, or simply spend quiet time away from the places where we interact with each other directly, we are potentially opened for a deeper intimacy with each other.
Henri Nouwen
Alone
Time
Solitude
Community
Busy
Other
Our
Spend
Intimacy
Directly
Potentially
Write
Simply
Study
Opened
Read
Pray
Very
Quiet
Quiet Time
Interact
Whenever
Where
Different
Which
Places
Ground
Each
Away
Deeper
Lives
Grows
To learn patience is not to rebel against every hardship.
Henri Nouwen
Patience
Every
Learn
Against
Rebel
Hardship
Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
Henri Nouwen
Silence
Words
Listening
Somewhere
Lose
Distance
Longer
Know
Heals
Without
Cure
Closeness
Cannot
Meaning
Speaking
The real enemies of our life are the 'oughts' and the 'ifs.' They pull us backward into the unalterable past and forward into the unpredictable future. But real life takes place in the here and now.
Henri Nouwen
Life
Future
Enemies
Past
Real Life
Our
Backward
Unpredictable
Takes
Real
Place
Us
Ifs
Forward
Now
Here
Pull
For Jesus, there are no countries to be conquered, no ideologies to be imposed, no people to be dominated. There are only children, women and men to be loved.
Henri Nouwen
Women
People
Men
Only
Countries
Ideologies
Imposed
Women And Men
Dominated
Children
Loved
Conquered
Jesus
Discipline means to prevent everything in your life from being filled up. Discipline means that somewhere you're not occupied, and certainly not preoccupied. In the spiritual life, discipline means to create that space in which something can happen that you hadn't planned or counted on.
Henri Nouwen
Life
Spiritual
You
Discipline
Space
Somewhere
Everything
Something
Spiritual Life
Prevent
Counted
Occupied
Up
Being
Happen
Which
Create
Means
Planned
Your
Certainly
Preoccupied
Filled
The Christian leader of the future is called to be completely irrelevant and to stand in this world with nothing to offer but his or her own vulnerable self. God loves us, not because of what we do or accomplish, but because God has created and redeemed us in love.
Henri Nouwen
Love
Future
God
World
Leader
Own
Nothing
Christian
Self
Redeemed
Because
Vulnerable
His
Accomplish
Offer
Irrelevant
Loves
Us
Created
Stand
Her
The spiritual life is not a life before, after, or beyond our everyday existence. No, the spiritual life can only be real when it is lived in the midst of the pains and joys of the here and now.
Henri Nouwen
Life
Spiritual
Before
Everyday
Our
Be Real
Spiritual Life
Only
Beyond
Joys
Real
Existence
After
Midst
Pains
Lived
Now
Here
Prayer is the beginning and the end, the source and the fruit, the core and the content, the basis and the goal of all peacemaking.
Henri Nouwen
Prayer
Fruit
Beginning
Content
Source
Goal
End
Basis
Core
Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
Henri Nouwen
Life
Property
Illusion
Life Is A
Shared
Much
Based
Violence
Defended
Most Christian leadership is exercised by people who do not know how to develop healthy, intimate relationships and have opted for power and control instead. Many Christian empire-builders have been people unable to give and receive love.
Henri Nouwen
Love
Leadership
People
Power
Healthy
Control
Christian
Relationships
Intimate
Unable
Give
Develop
Instead
Know
Most
How
Been
Who
Many
Receive
The discipline of gratitude is the explicit effort to acknowledge that all I am and have is given to me as a gift of love, a gift to be celebrated with joy.
Henri Nouwen
Love
Me
Gratitude
Joy
Gift
Discipline
Given
Am
Celebrated
Effort
Acknowledge
Explicit
Fear is the great enemy of intimacy. Fear makes us run away from each other or cling to each other but does not create true intimacy.
Henri Nouwen
Great
Enemy
Fear
Other
Intimacy
Great Enemy
Run
True
Makes
Does
Cling
Us
Create
Each
Away
One of the most beautiful ways for spiritual formation to take place is to let your insecurity lead you closer to the Lord. Natural hypersensitivity can become an asset; it makes you aware of your need to be with people and it allows you to be more willing to look at their needs.
Henri Nouwen
Beautiful
Needs
Spiritual
You
Natural
People
Most Beautiful
Insecurity
Become
Ways
Willing
More
Take
Lead
Look
Most
Makes
Lord
Closer
Formation
Place
Your
Aware
Asset
Need
God is a God of the present. God is always in the moment, be that moment hard or easy, joyful and painful.
Henri Nouwen
God
Easy
Joyful
Always
Hard
Painful
Moment
Present
A life without a lonely place, that is, without a quiet center, becomes destructive.
Henri Nouwen
Life
Lonely
Destructive
Without
Becomes
Quiet
Center
Place
The journey from teaching about love to allowing myself to be loved proved much longer than I realised.
Henri Nouwen
Love
Myself
Journey
About
Allowing
Longer
Proved
Than
Loved
Realised
Much
Teaching
I have an increasing sense that the most important crisis of our time is spiritual and that we need places where people can grow stronger in the spirit and be able to integrate the emotional struggles in their spiritual journeys.
Henri Nouwen
Time
Spiritual
People
Stronger
Important
Sense
Increasing
Our
Our Time
Crisis
Able
Spirit
Struggles
Emotional
Journeys
Most
Integrate
The Most Important
Where
Places
Grow
Need
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