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Bruce Feiler
American
Writer
Born:
Oct 25
,
1964
Bible
Family
God
Religion
World
You
Related authors:
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Take a walk with a turtle. And behold the world in pause.
Bruce Feiler
World
Walk
Take
Behold
Pause
Turtle
When faced with a challenge, happy families, like happy people, just add a new chapter to their life story that shows them overcoming the hardship. This skill is particularly important for children, whose identity tends to get locked in during adolescence.
Bruce Feiler
Life
Happy
Chapter
People
Challenge
Important
Add
Locked
Adolescence
Faced
Life Story
Tends
New
Like
Particularly
Overcoming
Identity
Families
Get
Just
Children
Story
Them
Happy People
Skill
Shows
Whose
Hardship
The simplest consequence of walking on crutches is that you walk slower. Every step must be a necessary one. When you hurry, you get where you're going, but you get there alone. When you go slow, you get where you're going, but you get there with a community you've built along the way.
Bruce Feiler
Alone
You
Walk
Slow
Community
Every
Every Step
Way
Must
Hurry
Slower
Simplest
Step
Along
Crutches
Built
Go
Walking
Get
Going
Where
Necessary
Consequence
Celebrate your family's bleakest moments and how your relatives overcame them. In doing so, you will encounter darkness, but you'll give your children the confidence that they, too, shall overcome.
Bruce Feiler
Family
You
Confidence
Celebrate
Darkness
Overcome
Relatives
Will
Too
Give
Shall
Overcame
How
Doing
Encounter
Children
Them
Your
Moments
The bottom line: If you want a happier family, bring those skeletons out of the closet.
Bruce Feiler
Family
You
Those
Out
Bottom
Bottom Line
Line
Closet
Want
Happier
Skeletons
Bring
I grew up in the age of discount air fare, and for me, the act of joining a culture was a great way about learning about that different culture. So I grew up in the South, and went to college in the North, and found out that I learned about myself as a Southerner by leaving the South and going to the Northeast.
Bruce Feiler
Myself
Great
Me
Learning
Age
Culture
College
Air
Way
Out
About
Joining
Great Way
Learned
Discount
Leaving
South
Up
North
Southerner
Northeast
Going
Different
Grew
Act
Fare
Found
I say the same thing that I've said for decades now, which is: don't go over to Japan trying to change it, thinking that you know better. Go there trying to understand.
Bruce Feiler
You
Change
Better
Same Thing
Thinking
Say
Over
Know
Understand
Said
Go
Decades
Trying
Same
Which
Japan
Now
Thing
I'd say my best memory was climbing Mt. Fuji, and the worst memory was... trying to fit my feet into the free giveaway slippers at Japanese schools.
Bruce Feiler
Best
Memory
Free
Say
Worst
Slippers
Feet
Schools
Climbing
Fit
Trying
Japanese
The most successful families embrace and elevate their family history, particularly their failures, setbacks and other missteps.
Bruce Feiler
Family
History
Other
Embrace
Failures
Most
Particularly
Families
Family History
Successful
Elevate
Setbacks
Superman's original name was Kal-El, or Swift God. His father's name was Jor-El. Superman was clearly drawn as a modern-day god.
Bruce Feiler
God
Father
Superman
Drawn
Clearly
Name
His
Modern-Day
Swift
Original
Everybody has heard that family dinner is great for kids. But unfortunately, it doesn't work in many of our lives.
Bruce Feiler
Work
Great
Family
Dinner
Everybody
Our
Our Lives
Kids
Heard
Unfortunately
Many
Lives
If you tell your own story to your children - that includes your positive moments and your negative moments, and how you overcame them - you give your children the skills and the confidence they need to feel like they can overcome some hardship that they've felt.
Bruce Feiler
Positive
You
Confidence
Overcome
Negative
Own
Tell
Some
Give
Feel
Like
Overcame
Felt
How
Children
Story
Them
Skills
Your
Moments
Hardship
Need
Let your kids pick their punishments. Our instinct as parents is to order our kids around. It's easier, and we're usually right! But it rarely works.
Bruce Feiler
Parents
Our
Easier
Kids
Punishments
Rarely
Pick
Instinct
Around
Order
Your
Works
Right
It is our responsibility to find God in someone who is different from us. I think that God basically says, 'I created diversity on purpose, and it is your responsibility to figure out how to make it work.'
Bruce Feiler
Work
God
Responsibility
Diversity
Think
Our
Says
Out
Find
Someone
Purpose
Make
How
Different
Us
Created
Your
Figure
Who
Basically
When I was growing up, I, like many Jews, cheered what appeared to be the receding of faith from everyday life. The further religion got from our lives the better our lives would get, I thought, because persecution had been such a burden to Jewish families for generations.
Bruce Feiler
Life
Faith
Religion
Better
Burden
Everyday Life
Thought
Jews
Everyday
Our
Our Lives
Further
Would
Had
Generations
Like
Because
Got
Been
Persecution
Up
Families
Get
Many
Appeared
Growing
Growing Up
Lives
Receding
Jewish
The older I get, the more I realize that religion is not going to be easily marginalized by one of its wannabe successors - science, capitalism, consumerism.
Bruce Feiler
Religion
Capitalism
Science
Older
Easily
More
Consumerism
Get
Going
Realize
Marginalized
Don't forget, God uses words to create the world. Words! Words are only hope.
Bruce Feiler
Hope
God
Words
World
Only
Forget
Create
Uses
I'm a fifth generation Jew from the South, and I would say that I felt this connection to my religion, but it wasn't a spiritual connection.
Bruce Feiler
Religion
Spiritual
Generation
Say
Would
Felt
South
Fifth
Connection
Jew
Every writer dreams of writing a book that will touch people.
Bruce Feiler
Dreams
Book
People
Writing
Will
Every
Touch
Touch People
Writer
The bottom line: if you want a happier family, create, refine and retell the story of your family's positive moments and your ability to bounce back from the difficult ones. That act alone may increase the odds that your family will thrive for many generations to come.
Bruce Feiler
Positive
Alone
Family
You
Will
Thrive
Odds
Difficult
Increase
Back
Ability
Bottom
Bottom Line
Generations
Bounce
Come
Line
Refine
May
Want
Story
Happier
Create
Act
Your
Many
Moments
Decades of research have shown that most happy families communicate effectively. But talking doesn't mean simply 'talking through problems,' as important as that is. Talking also means telling a positive story about yourselves.
Bruce Feiler
Positive
Happy
Communicate
Problems
Important
Research
Telling
About
Through
Simply
Most
Also
Talking
Effectively
Families
Decades
Story
Mean
Means
Shown
My name is Bruce Feiler, and I'm an explainaholic. I first heard this word used to describe Isaac Asimov, and I knew instantly that I suffered from the same condition. It's the incurable desire to tell, shape, share, occasionally exaggerate, often elongate, and inevitably bungle a good story.
Bruce Feiler
Good
Word
First
Incurable
Tell
Exaggerate
Bruce
Good Story
Shape
Share
Knew
Instantly
Name
Occasionally
Isaac
Inevitably
Condition
Heard
Same
Often
Story
Asimov
Used
Describe
Suffered
Desire
I was so naive about writing, I went to the public library and checked out the only volume they had on the topic - an academic treatise about publishing from the WWII era.
Bruce Feiler
Library
Writing
Topic
Out
About
Only
Had
Volume
Naive
Checked
Academic
WWII
Era
Public
Public Library
Publishing
Treatise
Tired of nagging your kids to hurry up, get dressed, drink their milk and brush their teeth? Here's a radical idea: Don't.
Bruce Feiler
Tired
Radical
Teeth
Kids
Hurry
Dressed
Brush
Drink
Idea
Up
Get
Your
Milk
Here
All couples have been told to schedule regular one-on-one time. 'Date night' is the default answer to most problems in modern marriages. And research backs this up.
Bruce Feiler
Time
Problems
Research
Backs
Marriages
One-On-One
Date
Schedule
Most
Couples
Answer
Been
Up
Modern
Regular
Default
Night
Here's a confession: I hate parenting books. I hate the ones that are earnest and repetitive.
Bruce Feiler
Parenting
Hate
Confession
Earnest
Books
Repetitive
Here
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