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Melody Beattie Quotes
Melody Beattie
American
Writer
Born:
May 26
,
1948
Behavior
Life
People
Think
Time
You
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Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
Melody Beattie
Life
Thankful
Home
Gratitude
Acceptance
Denial
Confusion
Meal
Enough
Chaos
Clarity
Feast
More
House
Friend
Order
Turn
Turns
Stranger
Fullness
The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals.
Melody Beattie
New Year's
Waiting
Book
Chapter
Goals
Year
Before
Setting
Setting Goals
Write
Written
New
Like
New Year
Story
Us
Help
Stands
Letting go helps us to to live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore our balance. It allows others to be responsible for themselves and for us to take our hands off situations that do not belong to us. This frees us from unnecessary stress.
Melody Beattie
Balance
Stress
Mind
Live
Others
State
Our
Unnecessary
Responsible
Restore
More
Take
Go
Off
Hands
Situations
Themselves
Us
Helps
Peaceful
Letting
Letting Go
Belong
Make New Year's goals. Dig within, and discover what you would like to have happen in your life this year. This helps you do your part. It is an affirmation that you're interested in fully living life in the year to come.
Melody Beattie
Life
New Year's
You
Goals
Year
Living
Dig
Would
Part
New
Come
Like
Make
Within
Discover
Affirmation
Happen
Interested
Your
Fully
Helps
Living Life
Much of the time, the things we feel guilty about are not our issues. Another person behaves inappropriately or in some way violates our boundaries. We challenge the behavior, and the person gets angry and defensive. Then we feel guilty.
Melody Beattie
Time
Angry
Behavior
Challenge
Defensive
Our
Way
Guilty
Some
About
Feel
Boundaries
Another
Issues
Person
Behaves
Gets
Then
Much
Things
Violates
Live your life fom your heart. Share from your heart. And your story will touch and heal people's souls.
Melody Beattie
Life
Heart
People
Will
Live
Touch
Share
Heal
Souls
Story
Your
Feel what you feel, know what you know, and set your relatives free to do the same.
Melody Beattie
You
Relatives
Free
Feel
Know
Same
Your
Set
What do you do when life blindfolds you and spins you around? We think it's our fault, that we're to blame, when really we should be focused on being gentle with ourselves.
Melody Beattie
Life
You
Blame
Fault
Think
Our
Focused
Ourselves
Gentle
Around
Being
Really
Should
It's hard to give up the self-esteem connected to being codependent and appearing 'right,' which is probably a survival behavior learned from growing up in a crazy family. It feels like you will actually disappear.
Melody Beattie
Family
Crazy
You
Survival
Behavior
Will
Give
Disappear
Feels
Like
Self-Esteem
Learned
Up
Being
Which
Hard
Connected
Appearing
Growing
Growing Up
Actually
Right
Don't violate your own code of values and ethics, but don't waste energy trying to make other people violate theirs.
Melody Beattie
People
Ethics
Values
Own
Energy
Other
Make
Trying
Your
Code
Waste
Violate
A codependent person is one who has let another person's behavior affect him or her and who is obsessed with controlling that person's behavior.
Melody Beattie
Behavior
Controlling
Obsessed
Him
Another
Affect
Person
Who
Her
Few things can make us feel crazier than expecting something from someone who has nothing to give.
Melody Beattie
Few
Nothing
Someone
Give
Something
Feel
Make
Than
Expecting
Few Things
Crazier
Us
Who
Things
Guilt can stop us from taking healthy care of ourselves.
Melody Beattie
Care
Guilt
Healthy
Ourselves
Taking
Stop
Us
Twelve-step promotes spirituality, not religion. It gives a practical, day-to-day spirituality that tells me what I can and cannot control. There is room to be imperfect and to be someone who struggles to find God.
Melody Beattie
God
Religion
Me
Spirituality
Control
Tells
Find
Someone
Gives
Struggles
Imperfect
Day-To-Day
Practical
Cannot
Room
Who
We can trust ourselves to know when our boundaries are being violated.
Melody Beattie
Trust
Our
Ourselves
Boundaries
Know
Being
Violated
I used to be afraid of pain, didn't take a lot of risks, especially in love. I'm not as afraid anymore. I'm more spontaneous, more likely to say what I think.
Melody Beattie
Love
Risks
Pain
Think
Say
More
Take
Spontaneous
Likely
Lot
Afraid
Anymore
Used
Relationships are where we take our recovery on the road.
Melody Beattie
Relationships
Our
Recovery
Take
Road
Where
Guilt can prevent us from setting the boundaries that would be in our best interests, and in other people's best interests.
Melody Beattie
Best
People
Guilt
Setting
Other
Our
Would
Would-Be
Best Interests
Prevent
Boundaries
Us
Interests
Few things can frustrate us more than trying to make a person someone he or she isn't; we feel crazy when we try to pretend that person is someone he or she is not.
Melody Beattie
Crazy
Try
Few
Pretend
Someone
More
He
He Or She
Feel
She
Make
Than
Person
Trying
Few Things
Frustrate
Us
Things
I want people who have received a diagnosis of Hepatitis C to know that they didn't just receive a death sentence. They do have options, even if the person who gave them their diagnosis isn't aware of all of them. The path they choose doesn't have to be one of desperation.
Melody Beattie
Death
People
Desperation
Path
Gave
Know
Diagnosis
Person
Options
Just
Want
Them
Sentence
Choose
Who
Even
Aware
Receive
Received
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