Quotesia
Home
Authors
Popular authors
Henry Moore
George Bernard Shaw
George Chapman
Phyllis Diller
Pearl S. Buck
John Ruskin
All authors
Today's birthdays
1884 - Eleanor Roosevelt
1926 - Thich Nhat Hanh
1942 - Amitabh Bachchan
1992 - Cardi B
1967 - Peter Thiel
1961 - Steve Young
Today's birthdays
Popular professions
Mathematician
Actress
Athlete
Artist
Aviator
Chef
All professions
Authors by letter
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
X
Y
Z
All authors
Topics
Top Quotes
Quotesia
Favorite authors
Brene Brown Quotes
Brene Brown Quotes
Brene Brown
American
Author
Born:
Nov 18
,
1965
Love
Me
People
Think
Time
You
Related authors:
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
Henry David Thoreau
Joyce Meyer
Mark Twain
Og Mandino
Zig Ziglar
A deep sense of love and belonging is an irreducible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired to love, to be loved, and to belong. When those needs are not met, we don't function as we were meant to. We break. We fall apart. We numb. We ache. We hurt others. We get sick.
Brene Brown
Love
Needs
Hurt
People
Met
Fall
Sense
Sick
Others
Those
All People
Physically
Spiritually
Wired
Were
Get
Aches
Break
Loved
Apart
To Love
Meant
Deep
Function
Belong
Biologically
Belonging
Numb
Need
I don't have to chase extraordinary moments to find happiness - it's right in front of me if I'm paying attention and practicing gratitude.
Brene Brown
Happiness
Me
Gratitude
Extraordinary
Find
Chase
Attention
Practicing
Front
Paying
Moments
Right
I spent a lot of years trying to outrun or outsmart vulnerability by making things certain and definite, black and white, good and bad. My inability to lean into the discomfort of vulnerability limited the fullness of those important experiences that are wrought with uncertainty: Love, belonging, trust, joy, and creativity to name a few.
Brene Brown
Love
Good
Trust
Creativity
Joy
Black
Black And White
Important
Few
White
Spent
Those
Definite
Bad
Uncertainty
Outrun
Name
Lean
Wrought
Vulnerability
Limited
Discomfort
Making
Years
Lot
Trying
Experiences
Inability
Good And Bad
Certain
Fullness
Things
Belonging
The truth is: Belonging starts with self-acceptance. Your level of belonging, in fact, can never be greater than your level of self-acceptance, because believing that you're enough is what gives you the courage to be authentic, vulnerable and imperfect.
Brene Brown
Truth
You
Courage
Truth Is
Starts
Enough
Gives
Fact
Imperfect
Never
Self-Acceptance
Greater
Because
Vulnerable
Authentic
Than
In Fact
Your
Believing
Level
Belonging
Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.
Brene Brown
Love
Courage
Others
Ourselves
Daring
About
Risk
Having
Disappointing
Boundaries
To Love
Even
Set
Vulnerability is the birthplace of connection and the path to the feeling of worthiness. If it doesn't feel vulnerable, the sharing is probably not constructive.
Brene Brown
Path
Feeling
Birthplace
Worthiness
Constructive
Sharing
Feel
Vulnerability
Vulnerable
Connection
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
Brene Brown
Parenting
You
Believe
Daring
Parent
Fact
Imperfect
Idea
Adventure
Stumbling
Like
Most
Sure
Passionate
Experienced
In Fact
Expert
Experts
Far
Engaged
Researcher
Many
Boldest
Even
Traveler
'Crazy-busy' is a great armor, it's a great way for numbing. What a lot of us do is that we stay so busy, and so out in front of our life, that the truth of how we're feeling and what we really need can't catch up with us.
Brene Brown
Life
Truth
Great
Feeling
Busy
Our
Way
Out
Stay
Catch
Armor
Great Way
How
Lot
Up
Front
Us
Really
Need
Numbing
You're imperfect, and you're wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.
Brene Brown
Love
You
Struggle
Worthy
Imperfect
Wired
Belonging
Social media has given us this idea that we should all have a posse of friends when in reality, if we have one or two really good friends, we are lucky.
Brene Brown
Good
Reality
Social Media
Good Friends
Posse
One Or Two
Given
Idea
Friends
Social
Us
Really
Should
Lucky
Media
Two
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene Brown
Good
Fear
Master
Not Good Enough
Enough
Shame
Emotion
Powerful
Most
Most Powerful
When we're looking for compassion, we need someone who is deeply rooted, is able to bend and, most of all, embraces us for our strengths and struggles.
Brene Brown
Compassion
Looking
Bend
Our
Embraces
Able
Someone
Struggles
Most
Us
Rooted
Who
Deeply
Strengths
Need
Waking up every day and loving someone who may or may not love us back, whose safety we can't ensure, who may stay in our lives or may leave without a moment's notice, who may be loyal to the day they die or betray us tomorrow - that's vulnerability.
Brene Brown
Love
Day
Every Day
Safety
Tomorrow
Every
Back
Our
Our Lives
Ensure
Stay
Betray
Someone
Vulnerability
Without
Leave
Up
Waking
Waking Up
Die
May
Loving
Us
Notice
Loyal
Moment
Who
Whose
Lives
When you get to a place where you understand that love and belonging, your worthiness, is a birthright and not something you have to earn, anything is possible.
Brene Brown
Love
You
Earn
Birthright
Possible
Worthiness
Something
Understand
Get
Where
Anything
Anything Is Possible
Place
Your
Belonging
First and foremost, we need to be the adults we want our children to be. We should watch our own gossiping and anger. We should model the kindness we want to see.
Brene Brown
Kindness
Anger
First
Own
Our
See
Adult
Foremost
Model
Children
Want
Should
Watch
Need
Vulnerability is about showing up and being seen. It's tough to do that when we're terrified about what people might see or think.
Brene Brown
People
Seen
Tough
Think
See
About
Terrified
Vulnerability
Up
Being
Might
Showing
Showing Up
Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do 'faith.'
Brene Brown
Faith
You
Extremism
Minus
Mystery
Call
Equals
Vulnerability
Got
Answers
Then
What's the greater risk? Letting go of what people think - or letting go of how I feel, what I believe, and who I am?
Brene Brown
People
Believe
Think
Risk
Feel
Greater
How
Am
Go
Who
Letting
Letting Go
When the people we love stop paying attention, trust begins to slip away and hurt starts seeping in.
Brene Brown
Love
Trust
Hurt
People
Starts
Slip
Attention
Begins
Stop
Paying
Away
Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving to be our best. Perfectionism is not about healthy achievement and growth; it's a shield.
Brene Brown
Best
Achievement
Healthy
Same Thing
Our
Striving
About
Perfectionism
Shield
Same
Growth
Thing
If I feel good about my parenting, I have no interest in judging other people's choices. If I feel good about my body, I don't go around making fun of other people's weight or appearance. We're hard on each other because we're using each other as a launching pad out of our own perceived deficiency.
Brene Brown
Good
Parenting
Feel Good
People
Own
Other
Deficiency
Our
Out
Launching
About
No Interest
Perceived
Weight
Feel
Because
Around
Judging
Making
Go
Interest
Pad
Choices
Body
Hard
Fun
Using
Appearance
Each
The intention and outcome of vulnerability is trust, intimacy and connection. The outcome of oversharing is distrust, disconnection - and usually a little judgment.
Brene Brown
Trust
Judgment
Intimacy
Outcome
Distrust
Vulnerability
Intention
Little
Connection
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Brene Brown
World
Think
Our
Worthiness
Willingness
Never
Greater
Vulnerability
Than
Place
Capacity
Means
Engaging
Many people think of perfectionism as striving to be your best, but it is not about self-improvement; it's about earning approval and acceptance.
Brene Brown
Best
Acceptance
People
Think
Earning
Approval
Striving
About
Perfectionism
Self-Improvement
Your
Many
For me, the opposite of scarcity is not abundance. It's enough. I'm enough. My kids are enough.
Brene Brown
Me
Enough
Kids
Scarcity
Abundance
Opposite
Guilt is just as powerful, but its influence is positive, while shame's is destructive. Shame erodes our courage and fuels disengagement.
Brene Brown
Positive
Courage
Guilt
Our
Destructive
Shame
Powerful
Disengagement
Just
Influence
While
Fuels
Load more quotes
No more Brene Brown quotes
Haven't find the right quote? Try quotes from authors related to Brene Brown.
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Frederick Douglass
Helen Keller
Henry David Thoreau